Okay..I'm a sophmore, I live in South Carolina, I love music, art, writing, science..yea yea. I've been told I give pretty good advice, so, ask away.
Website: Myspace
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Occupation: Nothing, yet!
Age: 15
AIM: OmgCrista
Member Since: November 4, 2006
Answers: 2
Last Update: November 4, 2006
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OK this is the hardest thing i have ever been through.. :( and i have never felt this way about someone before..we have been through so much and shared so many good memories..well the story goes like this...
A girl comes out of nowhere and starts flirting with my bf of 9 months on myspace. They wind up hanging out at a football game with friends and he tells me he has some feelings for her. This was heartbreaking. However..i wanted to work it out with him so when he suggested 'open relationship' as in he dates her(not go out) and maybe kisses/hugs her and i agreed to this and to still be with him. I decided it wasnt fair to me..because we had 9 months..i dont desserve this and it hurts..so i break up with him..He says he loves me and sees a future with me as in marriage..that it wont get serious with the new girl but how am i supposed to know? (i mean he might go out with her he says..what do i do then?)They are hanging out more..they call each other..shes driving me nuts with her shoutouts to him and comments..and hes putting her shoutout in his info..its just too much and it breaks my heart. I dont know what to do..isolate myself from him..like not talk to him or hang out or anything so he makes a choice? (like if hes away from me maybe he will miss me..or maybe he will decide he wants her) Or do i be his friend? do i kiss him still and cuddle? i really want to..but this is very hard for me. Hes a sweetheart though. he told me everything..he was honest about her..and we made an agreement that he tells me everything and he has. they were talking together by the lake..they might go to the movies tomorro..i flip flop back and forth though..be his friend and hang out/talk/cuddle/kiss him...but sometimes i feel so sad and hurt i feel like i should back away completely. what do i do? is this worth the wait? (link)
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Ditch him! If he was in love with you then he would not want to hang out with/kiss/hug/etc with this other girl. You need to tell him straight up that it's either you, or the other girl, and it won't be both. You deserve way better than a guy who lies to you and messes around with other girls! I know it will be hard but you'll look back and know that you made the right choice.
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hey. my best friend hannah is turning
14 on monday and i don`t know what to
get her. she`s basically an athletic
girl who really likes boys and such.
but, she`s really popular so i want to
get her something that nobody else will
and something that she won`t forget.
so thanks in advance. (link)
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Well, since you two are best friends, you probably know a lot about her. I think it would be nice if you got like a scrapbook and put "Hannah" across the front in pretty letters, and then inside, had pictures of stuff she likes, stuff you've done together, cute boys she likes, sports, etc etc, and maybe even like a five dollar bill which can be "for the next time you need a ___ from ___." - then, you can include a disposible camera with it so you guys can make new memories!
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