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how to flirt?
Bahahahaha I know stupid question, but I honestly don't know.
Like, with a stranger you see in a shop or something. I know you don't go up to them and be all over them, because not only is that an anti social thing to do, but they may have a girlfriend.
But how do you flirt? I really don't know, lol.
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Honestly? I just kind of go with the flow. I know that sounds kind of lame, but it's true.
Obviously when you're around somebody you're attracted to, you're going to smile. That almost comes naturally, but make sure you are doing it.
Laugh at guy's jokes. I know from my guy friends that guys like girls who laugh at their jokes, no matter how terrible or lame they are.
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From there:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.
2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.
3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.
4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.
5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.
I know you are a girl and aren't asking how to find out if a girl likes you, but maybe you can try those tips out to SHOW a guy you're interested. If that makes sense =]
-Laura (16-f)
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Showing any kind of interest in the guy can be considered flirting if done right. You know, ask him about personal interests, what he's involved in, the music or movies he likes, etc. Flirting doesn't necessarily mean twirling your hair or batting your eyes at him. Believe me, the talking part is a LOT easier and probably gets better results than that, haha.
Complimenting is big one too. A simple comment about his appearance or attire would hint off the interest in him as well. :)
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lol k so basically flirting is just being friendly with a guy you tell him how funny he is and how handsome and cute you think he is and just twirl your hair to show that your interested and just ask if he would like to hang out afterschool or something if he doesnt already ask you.
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