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Faster please
Okay, this is sort of awkward, but here goes.
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now and he used to go pretty fast and hard and I loved it. Lately though, he tends to go slower and deeper, which is also great to an extent, but I prefer it when along with that he finishes off going faster and harder. But, I'm too shy to flat out say it to him.
So, my question is how can a subtly get him to start doing it faster like he used to, without flat out saying it?
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Communication is always something you need to have when you're having sex with someone. If you're afraid to tell him about something you actually enjoy, what's going to happen if he does something that you don't like or you find painful?
I can tell you one thing, he is not going to be offended or even seriously tease you when he hears your preference. In fact, he'll appreciate hearing some positive feedback from you! So gather up the courage to tell him, because you know that you'll be rewarded for it soon enough. (;
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Are you kidding?
Say it. Loudly, if you can manage.
Verbal communication during sex is always a good idea, as long as you arent discussing your day.
I absolutely 100% guarantee that if he hears you tell him to go faster, he'll give you what you want unless hes physically tired and unable.
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Flat out say it. Shy or not, he'll apriciate it. It would be easiest on you to say it in the moment. Just say "Faster!". He'll know what to do.
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Well, when you're in the moment..and you're yelling all these crazy phrases, just yell 'faster'. a lot of people do it, so you won't look weird or anything.
<3.
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