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never been kissed
heyy
i'm a 17 yr. old girl (turning 18 in january too!)
i've never had a boyfriend
i have never kissed a boy
a boy has never been interested in me (to my knowledge)
the main issue is that i'm not really friends with many straght guys. i do theatre so almost all of my guy friends are gay and there aren't many opportunities for me to meet straight guys. i feel like such a loser. i mean i'm almost 18 and have never had anything close to a romantic relationship with a boy. am i doing something wrong? i keep telling myself that it's normal and a lot of girls my age have never hooked up with anyone but i'm starting to think it's not normal and my self confidence has hit rock bottom. i'm not ugly or fat or anything. my best friend (gay guy) told me last year that i got so pretty, but i feel like no guys (straight) will ever want to date me. it's not that i want to hook up with someone just for the sake of hooking up with someone. i just want someone to love me and make me feel good about myself so i don't feel so alone. ughhh i don't even know what to do. any advice would be greatly appreciated!
thanks<3
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You're definitely not doing anything wrong, trust me. You're right about it being perfectly normal. I have plenty of girl friends who are nearly 18 and haven't experienced a real relationship of any sort before. But they're perfectly content with it because I've told them the same advice to just wait. Basically, you've still got all your college years ahead of you. Think of all the guys that will catch your attention (and vice versa!) when you head off somewhere new and have the chance to meet new people!
High school will always be high school. The guys are kind of "ehh..", so I strongly advise you NOT to rush into something just because you want to feel the thrill. Things tend to fall into place when you least expect it... but you know, just because I've mentioned to wait until college doesn't mean that's when it's guaranteed to happen. You could even meet a guy somewhere within this year and something might spark. You've just got to WAIT for it, you know? (:
If you've got anything else to ask or if that wasn't the advice you wanted, go ahead and reply, I'm willing to help you out as much as I can!
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