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this boy really confuses me
Leah, 16, Female
I met this boy through school, but now we have been seperated and moved to different colleges. He was a great friend back then, but this year since we have left school, I have kind of fell for him, it's like he has got everything I am searching for, everyone has that type they picture in their head, don't they? Well it is him, sometimes he will be like "i love you" he always texts me everyday FIRST with out fail, he uses the words "babe" sometimes too. I am really confused because whenever I say something cute/sweet he goes all weird and like, changes the subject or ignores me for a while. I have tried to hint that I like him a lot, and he kind of fell out with me, he wouldn't text back, until i had to force him to tell me what i had done. I don't know what to do? I don't want to just come out and say I like him, he is going to get freaked out, I hardly ever see him in person because we don't go to the same school anymore, if he didn't like me in any way he wouldn't text me everyday first witihout fail. He wouldn't be all flirty and cute, right?
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Sometimes it's just the guys personality. Some guys flirt with everyone, while other's only flirt with the one they fancy. Honestly, I found that being straight forward is more effective than never saying anything. If you are worried about your friendship with him, make it simple. "I like you, a lot, but if you aren't into me that way, please don't make a big deal out of it, I also value our friendship as well." etc etc. Or however you would put it. As for him texting and flirting everyday with you, honestly, I don't know him or how he is with other girls. Like I said previously, some guys are like that with all girls while others, only one they fancy. The only way you'll ever truly know is if you ask him and/or tell him.
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