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My bf broke up with me saying he needed time. How do I deal
Long story short he says he still loves his ex. His ex is fully committed to her boyfriend and she will never get back with him. I told him he needs time to think about all this and he agreed he said he would like some time and that he is still here for me.
In this case ... It is more than likely that he and I will never get back together correct?
I am so heart broken.. I have been on and off crying For the past hour i just feel so stupid and betrayed.
I am 17 and female
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Wow....sounds like you really like the guy. It is truly hard to feel like someone you really love doesn't love you the same way as he loves the other person. This is big but remember that if you truly love him, you would want him to be happy. I know you must think like 'what does this bitch know?' while reading this comment but trust me. I dealed with this shit and drama for a lifetime to know what to do. I would move on. There are tons, TONS of guys out there. Search for the perfect one that would love you forever. It may not be easy but life is longer than you think. And if your boyfriend actually chooses you over his so called ex, then it was meant to be. There isn't anything wrong with crying either. Sometimes, us girls need to release our sad feelings and crying is one way to do it. I'm sorry that your boyfriend is actually like such a mother fucking jerk for not liking you the same way as before but remember one thing. Stay Strong.
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Hi there.
I feel your pain. How could your "boyfriend" just tell you he still loves his ex? You have to consider how long you guys were together. That could be a major factor. You also need to think of how you guys got together and what was going on in his life at the time. Those are probably some of his reasons why he broke up with you. You did the right thing by telling him to take some time and decide what you want to do. You also need to let him know that you won't wait for him forever. He needs to realize that his ex has already moved on and he has a wonderful opportunity to do so as well. Maybe he just needs some time to realize that. Anyway, just let him know how you feel about him, but that you wont be around waiting for too long.
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