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scared of sex when i get older
well to me it really hurts and is kinda annoying when I try to put in a tampon even a little bit. so im afraid that when I get married and have sex for the first time it'll really hurt. -ps- i like just turned 13 if that helps at all- thank you.
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For many, when a female loses her virginity, it does hurt. As your hymen is being ripped. *aka the cherry being popped*. Since you are using tampons, and it hurts, have you considered using the smaller ones? Like the juniors light tampons? They are smaller, so may not hurt as much. If you are using those ones, and it is still hurting, I may suggest you stop using them and wear pads instead *I know they are severely uncomfortable, but at least it won't hurt* Do also consider, if you are not putting them in correctly, this will cause a painful discomfort as well. So just be sure they are in there all the way and properly. I'm not saying shove it in there, but to try putting them in slowly, this may help reduce the pain, if you absolutely do not wish to wear pads. But enough of the how to tips. Yes, when you have sex for the first time, it may or may not hurt. The pain can vary. Some girls I heard talk about it and said they could not stand it and had to stop and try again at a later time, while others said they did not notice any pain. For you, there will be no telling how much or how little it will hurt until you've gotten married and make love to your husband. By the time you get married, who knows, by then it may not hurt as much or anything. Until then, don't worry about it. Sex shouldn't be on your mind right now. If you are using regular flow size tampons though, go for the light flow. You may have to change a little bit more often, but it may make it easier.
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