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My ex broke up with me and texted me last night
He and I decided he needed time because I found out he still loved his ex. He never told me about this and I feel like he only dated me because 1. he did sort of like me but for the most part to get over his ex.
Any way, he broke up with me 4 days ago and he texted me last night. After the small talk of hey and what's up he asked me why were his ex ((who is how i found out he still loved her, she was so kind to tell me (not being sarcastic) ) and I texting the other morning and I told him she just wanted to make sure i was doing okay.
Then he has the nerve to ask me " are you ok" i told him I dont know I guess so. He says how do you not know and I told him I didn't want to talk about it. He asks why and I tell him why would I talk about it then he responds by saying well I was just asking.
Can someone please explain to me why does he care. He let me go so why would he care how I am doing? He loves his ex. I am almost positive he doesn't even like me or anything. Why would he want to know or even care if I am ok? by the way if this helps, He is 17 and so am I. and I don't want to get into all the details but he took something of mine he will be someone I will never forget. This is why I am so hurt and confused. Please explain
ALSO his ex and him are never getting back together because she is happily taken. Which is why I decided to not be mad because he needs time to get over her
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If she is happily taken then there is a very small possibility that they would ever get back together causing him to be heartbroken so it's basically kind of like karma. Remember that you're strong and you can handle and go through the situation too. Since he asked you the question, he may care to see if you were alright. Boys have a heart too but they do have a weird fuckin way of sharing it at times.
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In my eyes he is playing games, You are his plan B simply put.
Sounds to me he is trying to keep you around encase his little plan for his ex doesn't work out. As if he cared in the first place you wouldn't of been his second choice, You would of been his first.
Now to not to be brutal but in today's society the teenage generation is just playing the dating game (If you get what I mean)
If he text you, Ignore him. You are feeding into by replying to him because that is simply giving him what he wants. The guy is nosy, I don't for once second buy the fact that his girlfriend wanted to know if you were okay. Sounds like he is immature and just wants to play head games. My suggestion is to shut him out, He left you to crawl back to old baggage. Now it's time to focus on YOU and move on from it. One thing I learned the hard way is you NEVER depend on a man, You depend on YOU.
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