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My 'player' ex bf who I still love, HELP PLEASE!
Hi!soo, long story short my ex bf(15, I'm 14) broke up with me a couple months ago, we were on and off since march this year, we had been friends since we were 7/8, I have to see him every week though, the thing is, I still love him. The last break up(we had broken up 4 times) went really well because the one before it I had really lost it, I acted almost happy though when he did it last. Problem is, is that he thinks he's a player, he's not(lol), but in a way he kinda is (if that makes any sense>.<), I want to get back with him but since of his 'player' ness if I show interest he prob will back off, what do I do? He told my friend this past sun that I was beautiful, but that he didn't want to date(he'll lie and say that), idk what to think. My guy bestfriend thinks he still likes me but doesn't wanna show it. Any help is VERY appreciated!! Xoxo -T
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A relationship like that doesn't sound as though it would be very enjoyable honestly. Always breaking up, get back together again later, only to break up again? I would suggest *it will be tough* that you just get over this boy. You will find someone who is yours, and won't leave you over some stupid reason. You don't want to be in a relationship where he'll be with you when he wants, leave you when he finds someone else that interests him, then leave them for you again... Only for the cycle to continue. This doesn't mean you two can't still be friends, of course. You can still hang out and talk, but it just doesn't seem as though you two were really meant to be together. Especially with all the problems *to me, constantly being left is a problem*. If you do decide though, that you want to be with him, then just tell him flat out. Tell him you still care a lot about him, and if he does actually care about you, he'll be with you and stay with you without constantly dumping you. You can only be honest and straightforward at this point.
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