Question Posted Thursday September 20 2012, 12:57 pm
So I'm a bit of a body language enthusiast and he's hitting all the marks: dilated pupils, flirtatious body language, like by the book, he's showing all the body language that indicates that he likes me. Thing is he never texts me and said he'd never date someone younger (I'm younger by 2 years). But he may have been joking/teasing, I'm not really sure...
But anyway, those two little things right there are making me believe that I am just reading him wrong and that he doesn't really like me...and then I remember one day I told him we should watch a movie together and he said "I'd really like that" but we never really finalized plans. And one day I dropped a folded piece of paper with writing on it, and he jokingly asked if it was a love note....
So what gives? I'm so confused and I'd like to know someone else's opinion before I start developing deeper feelings for him.
And I mean deeper feelings as in reciprocating the attraction, not anything that crazy....
Thanks in advance!
Oh, and I'm an 18 year old girl.
I've always said I'd never date a younger guy, but my current guy is younger than me, and this is the best relationship I've ever been a part of. I tried to use that as one of my rules (because it has been), along with several reasons not to like him, and here we are 11 months later.
Honestly, when you like someone, you like someone. If you're REALLY self-aware, you can maybe talk yourself out of the crush, but most people don't do that. It looks to me like he likes you. Follow through with a movie night. Flirt with him. Sent him a text. You can't get anywhere unless you try!
Ashkoni answered Thursday September 20 2012, 10:33 pm: Honestly just coming from a guy, since he is older than you hes not gonna want to text you first. Your gonna have to text him first, and if he responds well , he obviously wants to talk to you. But just being older, as a guy you would rather the younger girl chase you than vice versa. It sounds like he definetly has a little crush on you so work with it haha [ Ashkoni's advice column | Ask Ashkoni A Question ]
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