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am i not girlfriend material?
ok so im 17/f he is 18/m
When i meet mitch he said he was looking for a relationship, but now im left wondering if he wants a relationship with me.so basically we have gone on 5 date, all went really well. ive already meet his family (mum,dad,sister, aunty uncle and cousins) he says he likes me ect and he seems geuine. but the thing that leaves me wondering is that he is always messaging other girls (generally this wouldnt fase me considering all my friends are guys, but this is different, i just have a gut feeling.) i really like him, but sometimes he bags me out to much beyond a joke, and im no closer to being his girlfriend. suggestions?
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Trust your gut, and state your timeline and desires.
This isn't about giving him an 'ultimatum'. This is about standing up for what you can live with and what you want from your relationships.
Tell him you are confused if he wants a relationship with you are not. Tell him that is what you want and ask him what his thoughts are.
Or you could just dump him.
Frankly, that's what I'd probably do in your shoes. Any guy who insults you enough to really upset you (especially after only 5 dates) is one I'd say Thanks but No Thanks too.
If that's him on his best behavoir, I wouldn't stick around to find out what he's like on a bad day.
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I always believe in going with your gut feeling. If there is something telling its wrong then chances are its wrong. Now there are three options; you talk to him and let him know that when he is texting and talking to other girls that it bothers you and maybe this will open up a line of communication. Second you could just except it because you really like him and care a lot about him and let it go. Or last you could leave the relationship if you're not happy and find someone who makes you happy. Good luck!
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