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Feel unloved
Posted Saturday September 5 2015, 3:04 am
I feel so unloved. I am 23 and have never been in a relationship. I do not get along with my family and don't have a single person in my family I feel I can trust or is truly there for me. I am living alone in a new place, and I really do like it, but I don't have friends yet. I've been really disconnected from some of my old friends lately, as we are on our own separate paths. I've never been a relationship person. I've always been the emotional drama queen in my family and that caused a lot of issues in the family dynamic. In the past few weeks I got to know a guy over tinder, who I had really high hopes for. As soon as I implied I wanted to hang out with him and get to know him in a public place for our first meeting (as opposed to as op...
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Super Scared My Sister's Not Gonna Understand
Posted Saturday September 5 2015, 12:36 am
My sister had a premature baby this past summer whose about to get out of the hospital most likely next week. My parents and I went down there when he was born, but went home after we knew that everything was gonna be alright and planned to go back when he got out of the hospital.
Now, here's my problem. I've been sick lately with this strange respiratory thing and my doctor told me not to go near the baby until it goes away, which she said could be a while. I'm not gonna be able to go visit my sister or the baby from September 17th until probably when we go to our family's Christmas. I feel bad because I know she'll be disappointed, maybe even hurt if I'm not there next week, but I can't let the baby catch this virus.
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I keep doing something I shouldn't... and I can't really ask for help?
Posted Friday September 4 2015, 7:16 pm
I keep doing something I shouldn't, and something I don't want to do until I start doing it. And I shouldn't do it, but I do. I hadn't for months, but then I did it again today. I really don't want to ever again, and I hope I won't. I won't. But I might get caught, and if I do, that won't make a difference. It'll be over, I'll be screwed, and I really just feel dirty and bad, and I know I'll feel better in a few days, but I can't guarantee definitely I won't do it again. And even if I don't, I regret it and feel bad. And I can't ask for help, I'd be in trouble and all my actions would be misconstrued. Basically... I'm sorry.
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Friend won't stop calling and now she's mad?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 11:07 pm
Hi I'm 16 years old and recently I have been on summer vacation, in the beginnings of summer I had this friend who would constantly call me every day or at least every two-three days twice. In July I didn't mind it because I wasn't busy and I was bored so I'd answer her phone calls but now that it's August back to school is next week I've been busy. She calls me 24/7 and I'm not exaggerating in July I went to a party and she called me after I told I was at the party. The next day I went on a walk with my friend she called!!, I went to the mall with my family she called!! The list goes on and on. So finally August I just dodged all her calls because enough was enough because she always talked about the same thing and I was just done with it....
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Does he like me?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 10:04 pm
Does he like me?
So.... I have a crush on this guy, and I am not sure if he likes me back. It is a little hard to tell. People tell me it s because of his Aspergers. That doesn t bother me at all, if anything it makes like him more. I have spent hours researching and trying to find ways to talk to him, but I am afraid because I don t want to bother him or anything.
I met him last year, and we were hanging out with someone friends. When he first saw me, he stared at me and wouldn t look away from me. He helped me carry things and even leaned on me ( I am 5 0" and he is 6 3") he was very close to me and didnt mind being like that.
Another time he hung out with our mutual friends, they played ar...
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I don't feel female?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 8:39 pm
I'm 12 year old female(?)...let me explain.
Ever since I was young, like in pre school I thought like a man. In pre school i bonded with females, but boys just seemed to get me more. I played with trucks, liked to destroy, never broke into my mom's make up, etc. In kindagarten, I didn't care about my appearance and I liked digging up worms. I didn't care about my looks and never felt I fit in with my gender. Girls, they like to be neat, I don't. And now, it just gets stronger. I'm constantly being reminded to "act like a girl". I've always tried but it was always awkward. I played with barbies but I tried my best to turn them male, and preferred making action figures fight. I liked video games that men were supposed...
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why do Christians hate people that practice witchcraft?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 6:20 pm
Okay...so I am a practicing hedge witch. I am not a satanist, niether do I hurt anyone, controll anyone, make poisons, sacrifice goats or do anything to harm anything or anyone...infact I do quite the oposite..I make home made remedies from herbs ect, to help peoples illnesses and beauty problems, I help as much wildlife as I can (I have had multiple resued wildlife from crows with broken wings to a snail with a broken shell.) I'm just a genuinely peacefull person who goes out of their way to help anything or anyone. So why, do i get so much abuse from christians? I've done nothing wrong towards them at all...I thaught it was suposed to be a peacefull religion that respects everyone and every living thing yet they abuse people who do a bett...
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How to build up the courage to ask a girl out?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 5:26 pm
There is a girl that I really like, but I think she is taken. I was never good with talking/asking a girl out, I'm to nervous about asking a girl out cause I don't know what to say, or I don't know how to build up the courage to ask a girl out. What do I do?!?!
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What exactly does purgatory look like?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 4:31 pm
So being a 12 year old Catholic, I go to religion school (it didn't start yet for this year though) and we learned when you die you get judged then your taken to heaven, a place of eternal reward, hell, a place of eternal punishment, and then there's purgatory, a place in between, where you can, idk, holy yourself and save your soul? But it confuses me because if you've lived a bad life you go to hell. How could you end up in purgatory and get a second chance? And what does it look like? I always imagined it as a waiting room where sad and angry spirits sat in chairs until they could leave. But that's just my imagining. Any opinions?
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Should I be cautious of my new boyfriend or am I being over-analytical?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 1:49 pm
So I know this might sound weird (because I think it does) but I've only met my boyfriend twice since I started dating him less than a week ago.
He asked me to be his girlfriend on the 2nd date and I said yes because I really liked him. I'm 21 (so is he) and in the past I've been in a LTR for over 2 years and after that ended I went on probably around 12 dates and I just didn't really feel like I "clicked" with any of the other guys but this guy was different. It was like we were meant for each other. We think the same way, we're looking for the same things in a relationship, we have similar life goals, we have chemistry. It was crazy, I kept telling my closest friends how bizarre it is because it's literally like w...
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Groped someone while drunk, and I feel awful
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 12:19 pm
Hello all. I'm a 19 year old female college student. Several months ago, whilst black out drunk at my friend's apartment, I groped his roommate. I have no recollection of this, but apparently I rubbed the guy's crotch. Several people were in the room with us at the time. I think he asked me to stop and I believe I did.
The next day, my friend's roommate was discussing the events of the previous night with my friend, and said something like, "if the roles were reversed, and I did that to her, she'd be calling the police." When my friend told me this I felt absolutely awful, like a complete monster. I asked him to apologize to his roommate for me and he said that my apology was accepted and that his roommate understo...
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Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 10:09 am
l need advice as I am in a financial crisis I guaranteed loan to a friend later he deserted his job and disappeared now my little salary I was getting was attached currently am getting no salary as I'm also repaying my loans I have a family and the kids have to eat and I have to pay their school fees am behind with bills I'm heavily in debts and I have no other way I can earn I have tried to find way with lending institutions but I'm already blacklisted pls advise
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Marriage Breakdown
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 8:06 am
My wife posted a very slanted and highly edited version of the events that have led to the breakdown in our marriage here yesterday. She has shown me it today and has agreed to let me now post the full story without any details omitted, so that all the facts can be taken into account before any advice is given.
We have been together 5 years, married for 3, I have a 7 year old step-child and Emily is currently pregnant with my child. In yesterday's account, she implied the sole reason for me considering leaving was finding out about a threesome she had with two males when she was younger. She painted me as "paranoid" and, for lack of a better word, abusive. The truth is Emily has had a serious issue with compulsi...
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Boyfriend's sis is dating my ex? Weird jealousy?
Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 12:28 am
Hi!
I've been dating the same guy for 5 months and before it was official, we had a thing off and on. I feel for him
Very strongly and can't see myself with anyone else.
However. His little sister started dating my ex boyfriend . Him and I only dated for a good month. But he's been chasing after me ever since. We're super close friends but have been on rocky roads lately. And I guess ...I'm scared to lose him? He's dated other people before my boyfriends little sister, and I didn't have any jealousy
Problems with those girls. And I am truly happy
For him.. I just.. Idk. Am jealous?
I guess what I'm asking is.. How do I cope/deal with this? I'm
Very happy with my current boyfriend and wouldn't...
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i need help asap!!! I have never bleed from my vagina while masterbating. And I'm a virgin please help me!!!!
Posted Wednesday September 2 2015, 9:55 pm
I'm 16/f and I was masterbating with a object and it doesn't hurt and I'm not on my period so anyway I'm bleeding blood from there and I don't know what to do and I don't want to tell my parents. And I have been masterbating with a object for a while because I wanted to feel good but I have never bleed from my vagina while masterbating. And I'm a virgin please help me!!!!
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nexaplanon gives me bad pains down there
Posted Wednesday September 2 2015, 12:38 pm
Ive had nexaplanon implant fitted in my arm and i havnt had a period for two months but have had bad shock pains down below but no sign of bleeding is there anything i can do to stop or try and relieve some pain before i go and get it seen to thanks in advance
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Could I get AIDS or other illnesses if I wear a condom?
Posted Wednesday September 2 2015, 10:51 am
I had sex with my friend (both guys) and I was wearing condom. Could I get sick somehow?
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Can hymen grow back?
Posted Wednesday September 2 2015, 7:07 am
I should probably know this given that I'm over 18!
So I am abit confused because I (thought) I'd broken my hymen because I've had intercourse with a few guys one being my boyfriend.
BUT he has trouble 'getting it in' each time we try to have sex. And I was to drunk with the first guy to remember what happened.
So I had a look and like theres loads of skin where the vagina should be with a tiny hole at the bottom. I'm SO confused because I thought it had broken? Can it grow back since its been a few months since I've had sex?
Also is this a silly thing to go to the doctor about?
Thanks
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What would an anarchist society look like?
Posted Tuesday September 1 2015, 3:14 pm
So I'm writing a book (i write as a hobby) and I want an anarchy to emerge, so I'm wondering how an anarchy starts, what it would be like living in it (i imagine that total chaos would happen, and the humans would form tribes to live, and fight for power, but if you can show me how some anarchist society's work in real life today, that would be nice) and at some point it's going to end so how would am anarchy end? Thanks.
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How many times is normal to see your boyfriend per week (early 20s dating)?
Posted Tuesday September 1 2015, 11:53 am
I'm 21 and earlier this year I ended my relationship with my (now) ex-fiance who I'd been living with for 2 and a half years.
I've started dating somebody new who I've been on two dates with. We really hit it off and it's crazy how well we just "click" compared to the other guys I've gone on dates with. After our second date he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend like officially and of course I said yes.
Now his parents want to meet me this coming Thursday which I feel like is a little fast but I really really like him so I don't mind terribly. To be honest I've never fallen so hard for somebody before in my life and the feelings seem to be mutual by the things he says and how fast he wanted m...
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