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so confused


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:11 pm

so i just got together with this one guy and things are great
our whole school things we are the cutest couple
and we agreed to be together for the remainder of highschool
(cause we've been friends since 4th grade and we're juniors in hs now)
but i can't help but think about some of the other guys in my school
and how things will never work out with them cause i have a bf

like.. i don't know i'm so confused

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good bf gf song?


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:09 pm

my boyfriend and i are trying to pick a song

any ideas?

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New boyfriend troubles


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:03 pm

Ok so I'm 14 and in 9th grade. Last weekend I met this boy at a friends party. We immediatly hit it off. I told my best friend Taylor that I liked him a lot by the end of the party. She and Bobby are friends so she told him for me and he felt the same way. And at the party he was so cute we went outside. It was raining so he gave me his jacket. And then the next day he asked me out. This was over aim. I said yes and that's that. During the weekend we talked a lot and we have so much in common. We both love horror movies, like shakespear, have most of the same friends. Pretty much we agree on everything. Monday after school I stayed after with him and we watched a volleyball game. We talked and talked and he's really great because he just ke...

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i love him soo much


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 4:20 pm

this boy in the year aove me in school an i really really like him so much that im kinda obsessed with him and i cant stop thinking about him. (he has a girlfriend by the way ) when ever i see him around school i always ignor him and block him out and i really dont know why, but my friend always says to me '' he just looked at you then'' so it made me think does he like me ? or is he thinking that i dont like him anymore, i really dont know. i really wont to get to know him abit better and have the guts to go up to him an say hi.
can someone help me please (: thanks
14-f-uk

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Wayy to Young


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 4:12 pm

I am a 14 year old mother.
Please do not judge me, i am judged enough.
I am still in school and planning on finnishing.
My story is, my friends father raped me, obviously he did not know what the word protection ment, and knocked me up. He is in prison, my parents grief every day, and people stare like they think they are God and its judgment day. It is very hard, i couldnt give the baby up, i just didnt have it in me. I am 7months and huge. I am scared, i have watched tons of videos on wat is most likely going to happen to me when the twins arrive. Yes, i said twins. One boy and one girl. My mother has called adoption agencies and etc, but i have turned them all down, truly i want to keep my children, granted the fathe...

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only have till friday...Brithday Dec 11


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 3:51 pm

I need advice quick i dont have much time till friday!!! PLS....Im turning 20 on the 12 of december but i am celebrating on the 11th. My bf works on the 12th and so i wanted to be with him on friday than go to the casino with my sis her bf and my mom and come back at like 1am or sumthing...go to my sis house, have cake sleep wake up he would leave and i would still see him ON my birthday. He doesnt like my sis and her bf very much, i dont know exactly what he has against them but he thinks they are annoying or sumthing. So he doesnt want to stay there, he just wants to drive home from the casino and me and my sis mom and her bf go our seperate way. I dont want this. This birthday has been so frustrating with plannign something SO FREAKING S...

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i like this guy but he doesnt like me what should i do


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 3:33 pm

Okay so I like this guy. We danced alot at our school's Winter Dance. And then the next day at school he wouldn't talk to me or even look at me. And he kept telling people he doesn't like me, that he likes my best friend. Should I keep trying for him or just give up?

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Getting to know her. things to ask. how to get started?!


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 3:11 pm

ok well theres a girl who works at the ski center i go to. out of the blue she randomley gives me her number and this cute smile, i had no idea she thought of me in anyway other than i go snowboarding there everyweek and she worked on reception.

well to be honest im only 18 and iv had... a very very short relationship with a girl and before her its been 7 years before any ones shown interest in me. how do i get things started? iv asked what shes in to, she loves motorcross and thank god i know something about that so i could ask her a few things. but now the msn conversations are getting a little mundane if im honest we both want to talk to eachother and get to know eachother but its coming to "umm yeah so im still bored...

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so ive been taking birth control for...


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 1:15 pm

3 to 4 months and this is what happend this month on the first of december i got my period all normal for the first two days but then it got light then really dark colored and then stoped so obviously i got worried i took a pregnancy test on that thursday it came negative but i was still woried so i took another one on tuesday. that came negative. so im hoping im not or am i taking the test to early my boyfriend almost cums in me al the tiem and we have sex about 3 to 4 times a week at least. is it my birth control or me.?

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for people in on and off relationships


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 12:47 pm

what do you do?

i need advice badly. me and my boyfriend broke up and then got back together and now we broke up again. its a couple months after everytime he says "i love you" to me..he has commitment issues because he grew up with his parents fighting so i understand why he's like this ( he hasn't actually told me that but i know it's it because my dad had divorced parents and went through the same thing). i've seen love die so many times when it deserves to live and i don't want this to be another. he tells me when we're apart (we live 20 mins from each other) theres times when he doesn't want to hang out and he'll make up an excuse why he cant but then when he's with me, he won't let me go... i know he loves me ...

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Finding out my mother's secret? (warning, long)


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 6:28 am

A year and a half ago I moved out of my mother's home. She was a terrible mother towards me, she used to force feed me junk food to purposely make me gain weight (I was an overweight child) so she could torture me mentally and say I was abnormal and fat and different. She used to hit me up until I was 16 when I moved out to my Dad's, and she used other ways of torturing me both mentally and physically, including constant death threats and making me feel small and encouraging me to commit suicide during a dark depression when I went up to her for a hug.

She also used to use all of Dad's child support money on drugs and when she couldn't get her fix she'd hit me when I was a small child and I wouldn't eat until she begged my fa...

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My roomate won't shut up!!!


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:40 am

I'm 18 years old and in a serious relationship. My boyfriend is my bestie and all thee above. I believe our sex life is our business and personal and we NEVER discuss it with anyone.

Well, my roommate caught us having sex one day and ever since then she won't SHUT up!!!!

[My boyfriend is pretty uncomfortable knowing she saw us. Violation of privacy is what it felt like.]
If a condom commercial comes on: "omg you and eric!"
I had leftover conditioner in my hair: "don't know with THAT is since you and eric are..."
A sex scene: "eric's butt!"
"everytime I see sex on tv I think of eric's butt going up and down."
"we need one of those ...

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My friend is depressed about break-up & is avoiding human contact! (Long)


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 2:08 am

They broke up last week and she is very very sad about it.
But, he was a horrible boyfriend and is a horrible person. He treated her badly, he made PLENTY of mistakes and she forgave him, then when she made ONE tiny mistake, and he dumped her. He got mad because she wouldn't have sex (she is 15 and he is 14!) and he was a total @ss hole.
She is naturally a very cheerful girl, she is strong and doesn't let people get her down, so i hate seeing her like this. She keeps blaming her self, but it wasn't her fault at all, it was his fault because he acted like an emotional, over-dramatic, inconsiderate, selfish jerk.

Anyways, she keeps beating her self up about it and she is completely in love with him still. She wa...

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photoshoot


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 10:49 pm

i want to do a photoshoot...does anyone know around how much it costs and where/who i could talk to to do one? any advice is appreciated! thanks.

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it is too late?


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 9:46 pm

I haven't seen my girlfriend in 6 months. I didn't realize how long 6 months was. she isn't doing bad, I mean she misses me, but her happiness outweighs her loneliness. Me on the other hand, I've never felt this lonely before. I love this girl. but its gotten to the point where when I think about her I cant conjure up any happy thoughts. it just feels empty. I feel so far away from her right now, emotionally and mentally. am i just being negative? It used to be fine. when i would start to feel lonely i would just think about holding her in my arms and it would ease the pain. now I feel nothing. I see her in two weeks. I SHOULD be excited but Im more nervous about it. I'm scared we spent too much time apart and now its too late. I'm scared t...

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Smoking weed


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 9:45 pm

Me and my best friend have been wantin to smoke weed fer a hella long time.Well this guy who does was like oka this weekend we going to smoke. So heres my questions will i like throw up he thinks we will.and when we get back home whats the best way to disguise it and when will it like ware off?

Dont tell me not to do it cause i get it from everyone of my friends so just answers these questions okayy

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So i wanna be more outgoing?


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 9:27 pm

Listen i am pre outgoing but with people i know..but like i can be really shy to whats the best thing fer me to do i am not the kind of person that looks like someone to talk to yah have to get to know me first? help?

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looking more awake


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 9:10 pm

i have hereditary bags under my eyes and i normally put alot of makeup on the cover it up and im tired of doing that. any ideas on how to look more awake without pounding on tons of make up?
thanks

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Bangs


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 9:09 pm

so i have curly hair and i went to the salon the other day and the lady cut my hair to short. i guess she didnt realize how much it would curl up. so now i have a little patch of curly hair on one side of my face ive straightened it but it look funny. does anyone have any ideas?

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applications


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 8:13 pm

i applied to 3 colleges sometime around mid November. A lot of people in my class are receiving acceptance letters already and i'm just wondering how long it will take for my letter to come? they're rolling admissions and it says at least 2 weeks, but it's been 2 weeks and i'm getting anxious. so maybe if you've been through the college process, can you tell me how long yours took to come?

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