Question Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:03 pm
Ok so I'm 14 and in 9th grade. Last weekend I met this boy at a friends party. We immediatly hit it off. I told my best friend Taylor that I liked him a lot by the end of the party. She and Bobby are friends so she told him for me and he felt the same way. And at the party he was so cute we went outside. It was raining so he gave me his jacket. And then the next day he asked me out. This was over aim. I said yes and that's that. During the weekend we talked a lot and we have so much in common. We both love horror movies, like shakespear, have most of the same friends. Pretty much we agree on everything. Monday after school I stayed after with him and we watched a volleyball game. We talked and talked and he's really great because he just keeps the Convo going. Tuesday I didn't see much of him and we didn't really talk to much today. I really like him and I want this to last but I'm worried things are going to get akward. Plus everyone thinks he's gay and whatever because he's got a lot of friends that are girls. And I'm not sure if he really likes me now or at all. I want to give this relationship a good chance so what can I do? With some friends were going to the mall so I need some advice on how to get him to know I like him. We've been going out for like 3 days when should we hold hands or kiss? Help please! :) thanks so much
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MiCheLLeKaYLa06 answered Friday December 11 2009, 9:26 am: Dont stress about him, plenty of other fish in the sea and you still have a while before you need to worry about relationships.
When yall are ready to kiss it will just happen, don't plan it or anything. You can try holding his hand thats not that big of a deal. Just casually try holding it or ask him if yall can hold hands.
Don't be too pushy you have only been going out for 3 days.. its too soon to rush anything.
&& to know if he likes you play around with him, has a hat- take it from him, tease him lightly about how hes not going to get it back, and if he tries to grab for it- well yall get closer and theres possibilty for a kiss =] Just play around with him and if he plays back theres a good chance he likes you.
Good luckk! Let me know how it goes =] [ MiCheLLeKaYLa06's advice column | Ask MiCheLLeKaYLa06 A Question ]
justaskrandee answered Thursday December 10 2009, 2:24 am: You're only 14. Don't get so worked up over a relationship. You've only been talking to this guy for 3 days. If you become too demanding so soon, you'll run him off. You should not be looking for a serious relationship at your age. Live your life. You have plenty of time for a "real" boyfriend later. [ justaskrandee's advice column | Ask justaskrandee A Question ]
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