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giving up on love
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 8:59 pm
I'm feeling really low about myself because I can never seem to get a nice bf. I've been on blind dates that were disasters, and even got a new job at a store that hired 350 people to meet guys and I still havent gotten one. This is because most of the guys that work at the store are still in hs or college, and I'm nearing 30.
I know it's not me, I'm attractive, polite, funny, and sensitive. It just seems that all the guys I'm interested in just want sex, and not a permanent partnership. I also joined a church choir AND a Toastmasters, but all the men that seemed interesting were married.
My ten year hs reunion is coming up this year, and my wish is to have a nice bf to take with me. Does anyone have any ideas where I can meet some nice, AVAILABLE men?
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i love him.. and i know he likes me..but nothings happening
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 8:23 pm
well. im 15/f and i like this guy that i KNOW likes me back.. i see him about every week or so.. we flirt and all.. but hes not doing anything about it.. all of my friends say that he told them that he 'adores me' and all.. but hes really not taking anything to the next step.. is there something i can do to show/tell him that i want him to go further? tell me if im doing anything wrong.. or if i should be doing something..
thanks..
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Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 5:39 pm
One of my friends likes this guy, and while I was at her house I started talking to him on AIM; we had a good conversation, so when i got home I asked for his sn, because we got along pretty well. I've been talking for him for two or three weeks, now and I'm starting to get the feeling that I may like him. I really don't want to do anything to make my friend mad at me or him, and I don't want it to seem like I'm stealing him from her. I don't want to tell either of them that I do like him, because I'm not positive. I don't want to make something bad if it's just a phase or whatever. What should I do?
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Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 5:38 pm
I broke up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago. Since about the week of our break up, I've been hanging out with one of his best friends, and we've become extremely close. I'm beginning to fall for him, and likewise... but whenever this happens, I change my mind. I like the challenge, but once the other person starts to have feelings for me too, I'm bored and don't like them anymore. I really don't want to do that this time... because I really care about him.
I'm afraid to have a relationship, because I know that, being the way I am, I'm going to ruin it and lose an amazing friend.
Help?
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im a fat loser
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 5:19 pm
ok im really really and i lke this boy but and he was on my team in 6th grade im in 8th now and hes in 7th and im fat and ugly and hes hott and perfect we dont talk but we make contact and i know he knows who i am but we dont talk and i relaly like him wht should i do?
14/girl
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boyz
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 5:08 pm
When a boy says "he likes you" then you dont tlk and you send him a card saying I dont like you I just want to be really good friends. Then after you tlk to him for awhile and you start to fell that you really do like him. How do iI tell him now that I like him? Rate 5's on good answeres
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Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 4:28 pm
im confused about what to do with my ex cody, its like i get the hot and cold responses from him, so to speak. sometimes he's extrememly nice and we flirt and get along GREAT and others he seems completely shy and doesnt talk to me.
i have liked him since august (it now being january) and in august when i told him that he said he liked me too. so he kind of dragged his feet .. not sure what he wanted .. didnt know waht to do . the usual guy thing. and when i'd finally given up hope on him and me he left me a message at midnight on october 10th like three months later sayin he wanted to give us a try. only to dump me 10 days late b/c he he liked someone else .. then he told me a couple weeks later that he wouldn't have dumped ...
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Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 3:44 pm
17/f
My boyfriend, Isaac, of 3 months, has been different lately. He doesn't call as often and he barely ever asks me to hang out .. i'm always the one asking him to hang out. (We see each other a few times a week.. but it keeps getting less and less.) My friend Nicolas was talking to Isaac (they are friends) and asking him how things were between me and Isaac. He asked Isaac if he was getting bored with me yet. Isaac said he wouldn't mind seeing me just once a week, and he didnt want Nicolas to think he was "pussy whipped." So Nicolas told me all of this. But the thing is, i dont know whether or not to believe it, because Nicolas also likes me and is jealous of me and Isaac. But I dont think he would lie, but its possible....
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How to make a girl like me?
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 3:29 pm
There is a girl that i only think abt her i am in love with her how can i make her like me?
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Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 2:55 pm
i like this dude but im scared to tell him. i wrote him a message but then i chickened out and said srry wrong jesse...anyways i go to church with him and we always set by each other...and i cant take it anymore ...pleze help
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Falling for best friend
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 12:09 pm
im 15f. im falling for my best friend; weve known each other for 4 years; hes 16m
i dont knoe if he feels the same way about me n im to scared to let him no how i feel
lately hes been saying really sexual things 2 me and he wants to have sex with me; i told him maybe but im not sure
we never hang out n person becuas im always busy so we only talk on comp
do you think he just wants 2 be friends with benefits and thats all nothing more? n do you think i shuld jus give in n have sex with him if thats all hes lookin 4?
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best friend's love life. haha.
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 11:52 am
my best friend is a guy. he likes one f my friends and wants to ask her out. his last two girlfriends were horrible to him and i really want him to be happy. they are already friends and she is showing signs of liking him, though she tells me she doesn't like anyone and will tell me when she does. do you think there's a possibility that she likes him and won't tell me because i am so close to him?
also, he wants to ask her out soon. so i'm trying to help him come up with a really cute and romantic way. any ideas?
thank you. =).
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this is kind of complex n long. im sry
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 10:44 am
first of all, im 13 anf a girl. i like two guys. one guy have known for three years. the other is new to my school since monday. the new guy is also my teacher's son. to make it easier, lets call the guy ive known for 3 years, T and the new guy, A.
the whole week that i was in school with A, he oicked on me and always wanted me to sit by him. well i got his screen name and firday nite we started talking. in my profile it says i like somebody. he wanted to know who it was. after i awhile i told him. he told me he liked me too. we stayed up all night. he constantly flirted with me and was really sweet. i began to seriously like him. he keeps hinting that he wants me to ask him out or vice versa. but i still like T. what do i do.
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IN LOVE AGAIN!
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 3:14 am
ok. me and my best friend use to be completely in love with each other. then we kinda just ended it cause he got a girlfiend. but now he dumped her. and i think im falling for him again. what should i do?
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idontknowwhattodo
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 2:21 am
my girlfriend is unhappy and i don't know what to do. i've tried comforting her and asking her what's wrong but she won't tell me.
she did tell me her "friend" said she was stupid and she sucked at life. she actually listens to her, since she's apparently "always almost right".
and my gf doesn't like me mentioningher and saying bad things about her.
what to do?
she also seems to be avoiding me.. i'm assuming she wants to break up. i don't know.
it's like i tell her i love her, i care about her, and or i want to see her...then she gets sad and says she sucks.
she's not even explaining anything. i'm confused.
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Long Distance
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 10:41 pm
I was in a long distance relationship with a guy for 8 months. I met him at a summer camp 2 summers ago and we started dating in July. We saw each other 2 times during our relationship, then I surprised him once and visited his church this past summer after we broke up in April. He was my first kiss and my first love. I've had a boyfriend since we broke up, because I thought I was over him. He's one of my best friends and we still talk all of the time. I got over him because I didn't think he loved me anymore. He broke up with me because the distance was hard on him. He's more than worth the distance to me. After me and my last boyfriend broke up, we started talking a lot more cause we didn't talk so much while I was in a new relationship. ...
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my blind date was a disaster.....
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 10:40 pm
I went on a blind date today and it didnt excactly turn out the way I wanted it to. Well for starters, I had agreed to meet him at a local coffee shop with the couple that set us up. He was late and when he did show up he didnt look too happy when he saw me for the first time. He didnt offer to buy me anything to drink or eat, and the whole time we ended up talking about his friends or his business. He didnt ask me any questions about me or my personal life or interests, which indicated that he wasnt too crazy about me. We all talked for about a half hour, and when the couple the introduced us had to leave, my date looked at his watch and said he had to go. He never offered me his number or asked for mine. He actually looked like he ...
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faster
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 9:33 pm
I have this really good guy friend that I've liked ever since this summer. Recentlly I just found out that he's gay, and I was one of the few people he trusted with this. I really want to get over him, but recentlly I've been in denial and thinking that i was just imagining him telling me that, and ive been sleeping a lot more than usual. Is there anyway to get over him faster? I'll rate high for good answers
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Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 9:25 pm
i am 14 years old and guys just don't seem interested in me. i am a tom-boy and just seem like one of the guys to them. i flirt occasionally but don't go overboard with it. all of the boys at my school see me like their "sister" or the "girl next door" i am really good friends with a group of guys but i am afraid friends is all we will ever be. how can i get them to notice me as a girl who has "girlfriend potential" not just as a friend who is a girl? i am crushing really hard on this boy who has a girlfriend. we flirt and talk sometimes and he acts like he likes me but he is staying with his girlfriend. what can i do to get this guy to see me as a potential girlfriend and not just a friend? thanks in advance! i'll rate!
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i need help chooseing a girl
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 9:06 pm
ok for valintimes day i am going to give the gril i like a gift from her secrent admirer( it me) but than i started to like another girl. now i can't chose, the frist girl i like is smart, nice, cute and i am a bit taller, weres glass mexican, slitly thin, long hair, brown, weres it down. the one i stared to like is also smart, kind , cute, but is as tall as me, has frekls, light skin, long hair, light brown, she usly ware it in a bun, brown eyes, not fat,but is not thin either. plaese help me choose
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