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this is kind of complex n long. im sry
first of all, im 13 anf a girl. i like two guys. one guy have known for three years. the other is new to my school since monday. the new guy is also my teacher's son. to make it easier, lets call the guy ive known for 3 years, T and the new guy, A.
the whole week that i was in school with A, he oicked on me and always wanted me to sit by him. well i got his screen name and firday nite we started talking. in my profile it says i like somebody. he wanted to know who it was. after i awhile i told him. he told me he liked me too. we stayed up all night. he constantly flirted with me and was really sweet. i began to seriously like him. he keeps hinting that he wants me to ask him out or vice versa. but i still like T. what do i do.
now the situation with T is that i liked him for awhile. my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he was unable to answer that. i took it as a no and started to not like him so i could get over him. well it kinda worked, but i still like him. well last night we got in a fight because he told me that i liked A. well i got mad at him for sayin that. well he sent me the sweetest apology letter. in it he said that he was jealous of A and that he liked me. i sent him a message back sayin that i kinda still liked him. he said now that i also like A, he is kicking himself for not telling me earlier.
A is leaving my school at the end of this month. T will be going to high school with me. what should i do? i really like them both. but right now i think i like A more. im so confused. what should i do?
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I agree w/ what the others said, go for T. You've known him longer, and have had feelings for him longer, maybe you think you like A more because it's new, and you haven't gotten used to it yet. Besides if he's moving what are the chances of a long distance relationship working out? You're both young, and he'll move on, and well T has been there before, and will be there next month, A wont.
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If I was you I would go for T. You may like A now but you're only kidding yourself because he will be leaving soon. Your relationship with T would last longer and you probably know him better also. However, if you don't care that A will be leaving soon and you like him more go for him. But T is who I would pick.
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even if you like "A" more it seems like you and "T" have a better past and future together. youve known eachother, you talk all the time, and youll go to the same high school. if "A" is only gonna be there for a month it might get hard to see eachother. plus if you and "A" went out wouldnt you think id be a little weird at school with his mom being your teacher?? her always watching you guys...! if hes gonna leave soon then it will be harder then ever to get over him OR go threw with a 'long distance' relationship. with "T" you will be happier for longer...
XO KALIE
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