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Long Distance
I was in a long distance relationship with a guy for 8 months. I met him at a summer camp 2 summers ago and we started dating in July. We saw each other 2 times during our relationship, then I surprised him once and visited his church this past summer after we broke up in April. He was my first kiss and my first love. I've had a boyfriend since we broke up, because I thought I was over him. He's one of my best friends and we still talk all of the time. I got over him because I didn't think he loved me anymore. He broke up with me because the distance was hard on him. He's more than worth the distance to me. After me and my last boyfriend broke up, we started talking a lot more cause we didn't talk so much while I was in a new relationship. I talked to him last night and my sister asked him if he liked me. He said yes, but that we couldn't do anything about it because I live here and he lives there. I understand where he's coming from, but I might see him about 2 times before the end of the school year and then again for a full week because of summer camp. Because we still like each other, when we see each other, I still want to be together. I'm still in love with him. I guess I should tell him, but what would you do? I have an idea, but I want other peoples' opinions.
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i think thats really sweet that you guys have been together for so long and both agree that you live to far away but you still love eachother. jsut tell him what you said right here >>> He's more than worth the distance to me. <<< no matter how far apart you guys are and how often you get to see him, you still love him and thats what matters. i say tell him how you feel about the situation and if its still the distance for you too, see how it is when you see each other again; if its 'just friends' or 'beneficial friends' or 'pationate romance' type of thing.
XO KALIE
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Just wait until you can see him next and maybe pursue him then... but don't turn down chances to be with other people in the mean time. It's not fair to make yourself go through all of that just so you can see this guy for a week. I had a long distance relationship once but we saw each other every couple of months. You need to see this guy for more than how often you see him for that to really work out...
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stay freidns, and not together becuase you could never no what happens in other places. at camp, get back togther! i thik you should tell him you love him also. im turnin in for the nght but feedback soon!
Micki
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♥ Me and my friend live in springfield illinois.
♥ Her bofriend lives in Rhode Island.
♥ they have been dating for a very long time, they talk on the phone every night. Also, they watch t.v. shows or movies but talk to eachother on the phone while they do it, so it's kind of like they are together watching it.
♥ I think if you guys really like eachother then distance shouldn't matter.
♥ my friend and her boyfriend also fly up to see eachother all the time. but they are seniors in high school, and i'm assuming you are younger, so that probably wouldn't work for you.
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if you truely love this guy distance doesnt matter because you guys can have each other in your heart and it wouldnt matter. if you guys cant do that than i suggest to get over him and only stay as friend because it isnt worth the pain if you guys are makin the distance come between you to.
*~Stephanie~*
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