i love him.. and i know he likes me..but nothings happening
Question Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 8:23 pm
well. im 15/f and i like this guy that i KNOW likes me back.. i see him about every week or so.. we flirt and all.. but hes not doing anything about it.. all of my friends say that he told them that he 'adores me' and all.. but hes really not taking anything to the next step.. is there something i can do to show/tell him that i want him to go further? tell me if im doing anything wrong.. or if i should be doing something..
thanks..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hotrod answered Sunday January 8 2006, 10:38 pm: he probably just wants to get to know you a little bit better. i think he might be worried that since you see eachother as little as every week that maybe a relationship cant be held onto. if you know what i mean. i went through this with my ex. just tell him flat out that you like him a lot and want to take your relationship to a new level. he may react the way you want and then again maybe not. but it is always worth a try. lol. i really do hope i helped. drop into my inbox how everything went/goes. xoxo.. hotrod [ hotrod's advice column | Ask hotrod A Question ]
xjerseygirl16 answered Sunday January 8 2006, 9:52 pm: He's probably just nervous . .maybe invite him to the movie's one weekend with your friends or ask him to hang with you over the weekend.
attractive answered Sunday January 8 2006, 9:00 pm: Well in this case i think that you should take the next step just because you know he likes you doesnt mean that he knows how you feel about him. He may be shy. So u should tell him how you feel he'll like you even more especially if he already adores you hell love you now. Boys like a women who takes charge.But express how you feel otherwise the relationship might just end up being just one big flirt instead of living it out to its full potiential. So open up and tell him the deal you like him want to go with him dont miss out cause some other girl might come along and snatch him and then you will never get to know how sweet and good it feels to be his lady. Best of luck to u
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TheLoveDoctor answered Sunday January 8 2006, 8:56 pm: maybe he's just one of those guys that wants the girl to make the move first. you could lean in close and cuddle and stare into his eyes and maybe he will get the hint [ TheLoveDoctor's advice column | Ask TheLoveDoctor A Question ]
Bella12 answered Sunday January 8 2006, 8:50 pm: Well I think in your position YOU have to take the step further. If you know that he really cares about you, and you really care about him, YOU should talk to him. Ask him where you guys stand, tell him you want to be with him and ask him what is holding you back. Yeah it'll probably be hard to just come out and talk to him about it but it will be worth it. You will find out more about whats happening with both of you, and you wont be wondering anymore. Its obvious that you already waited a while for things to happen, and since he isnt doing anything about it you should. Trust me this WILL work, your not doing anything wrong i think you are just both too shy to talk about you guys as a couple. I asked my bf out and I took the next step all the time, now me and him have been dating for 4 months. You cant go wrong with my advice, even if something is stoping him from goin out with you, YOU will find out and you wont be wondering anymore. All i have to say is do not be afraid of rejection, if you are determined to ask him about stuff you will, just remember that in the long run, only GOOD will come out of you asking him.
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