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HELP I NEED SOME ADVICE ON FRIENDS


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 3:03 pm

I'll use fake names
(My friend)- Barbie
(Her crush)- Adam


Ok so my best friend "Barbie" has a crush and i fully support her having a crush on him. She likes this guy named "Adam" and i think he likes her too. Well the bad thing is that he lives on my street and her parents say she is not allowed to date yet. Barbie lives 15 minutes away by walking. The first time she went to his house was when she told her mom that she was going to my house to do a project. She actually just came to go to his house. I was little hurt that she used me. So she went and she had her first kiss yay for her. For a few weeks i would let her come over but she would always go to his house instead of spendin...

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My boyfriend is out of town and is barely responding


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 1:03 pm

22/f, 29/m

Let me first say: I noticed that my boyfriend has been distant lately. I wouldn't say physically distant until now, but I feel that he's been emotionally distant. I feel as if we're not connecting as much as we were. I told him this before, and he told me that he still loves me, and he doesn't think that he is. That he spent a couple of hours watching my favorite show with me and that he made me dinner... But I still feel disconnected from him.

My boyfriend is out of town for some business. He was only going to be there for about a day and a half and he's barely responding to me. He left around 10 PM and texted me around 12-ish telling me that he has arrived at the hotel and told me "good night....

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I need help please!!


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 12:29 pm

My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other on a monthly basis once or twice for a year and 7 months and yes we do have sex i saw hm two weeks ago but we ddnt really have sex but everything was nice he told me its always nice to see me...ihavent heard from him for a week now i texted him twice this week and he ddnt respond i texd him today making up a story and lying just to see if he was gona respond but nothing..am i clingy,is he thnking that..what do i do should i just ignore him and move on cause i really dont knw why he stopped speaking to me and ignoring me all of a sudden and we use to talk almost everyday but now things changed and i dont know why..i dont know what to do anymore all i do is cry...Sometimes he would just show up r...

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I am in love and I think he's the one 25/f


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 12:24 pm

He's amazing. He's the guy I've always dreamt of marrying. It's crazy how this happened. I had his business card and I meant to call him for something related to the business. i was given this card by someone else, so I hadn't met him in person yet.

I had no idea what this person looked like and I was imagining someone much older than me, someone like my parent's age or even grandparent's age! But, a thought entered my head that I just laughed off. The thought was very clear. This is the guy that you are going to marry. I thought this was the most ridiculous thing I could ever think. Especially because I imagined him to be old enough to be my father. But... then, by pure chance, I met him in person... having no idea that he...

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I need to break up with him


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 12:06 pm

hey there. so, i've asked a smilier question a few times... but it was more geared around whether or not I should actually break up with him considering that there were so many factors to the equation and I didn't really know if that was what I wanted to do for sure.
But, now, I'm sure. I need to break up with him. At this point, I'm completely checked out of the relationship. This is going nowhere. And I've fallen in love with someone else. I'm not the type of person who will naturally be attracted to other guys when i'm in a relationship. I'm not a cheater. And I would never leave a relationship because i have feelings for someone else. Because... if I made a commitment to the person I am with, I have to recognize that these are em...

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What True Depression ACTUALLY Feels Like


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 11:21 am

Do you want to know what true depression feels like? Then, read on...

If there's one thing I've felt myself, and, in talking with the people that have depression (a diagnosable depression), it's that we feel SO incredibly misunderstood. I can't emphasize or stress that enough. We feel that nobody, absolutely NOBODY understands what we're actually feeling like and going through. Then, that in-turn makes us feel more isolated and incredibly alone. Those two feelings then in turn revert back to making the depression even worse. Trust me, it's a vicious cycle. This compelled me to, as best I could, to attempt to describe what depression feels like when in an actual depression…

Please realize when you tell a depre...

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If the condom didn't break but he came inside me, would it cause AIDS?


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 10:49 am

Im not sure he's positive, cause he tells me he isn't (but who trusts anyone hahaha) still, I'm afraid this might give me AIDS, he came inside me, but he has a condom on and it clearly wasn't broken. So does that give me AIDS? Or is there a possibility?

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There's this boy....


Posted Friday December 4 2015, 8:11 pm

Hi! I'm 13 and really like this boy. I have literally liked him since I was 5 years old. We used to be so close, but when I left for a while, we didn't talk when I came back. I really really like him and I know that he used to like me too. We have basically liked each other since we 5. There were some rumours that he liked me a few weeks ago, but I thinks he likes this other girl. She is a friend and likes him. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I really like him. How do I know if he likes me? How can I talk to him without it being awkward?

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Christmas gift for my mom to remember her dad.


Posted Friday December 4 2015, 1:16 pm

About 4 months ago, I lost my poppop to cancer. As it has definitely been hard for me to lose him, it has been exceptionally hard for my mom because she was very close to her dad. Long story short, I want to make her something very memorable for her this Christmas that she'll love to have forever to always remember him. I remember her looking at something where I could sew a flannel shirt of his on to a pillow so she would still have a piece of him always. She already was gifted a quilt of some of his clothes and pictures of all of us so nothing quite like that, please. I'm just looking for memorable, cute DIY gifts to make her smile and remember the good times with him instead of his last few days suffering. Any help or ideas is greatly appreciated!! Thanks!

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Boyfriend shares a pet with his ex


Posted Friday December 4 2015, 11:24 am

I'm 24 and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating officialy for a month now. Things have been great there's just one thing that concerns me. He shares a dog with his ex. Its "their" dog not just one or the other. The dog stays at his ex's because thats where he grew up as a puppy and they didnt want to confuse him. Hes almost 2 now. My boyfriend doesn't get to see him much because he's been busy with school and hockey. His ex will text him though when she needs him to watch him. Or if the dog is at his ex's moms house my boyfriend will go over there and let him out and play with him if nobodys home. I just don't like they still have this connection through the dog. My boyfriend said he wants nothing to do with his ex and only tal...

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Do I Overreact?


Posted Friday December 4 2015, 6:38 am

As a mother, it's important to me to have a good relationship with my children, but having quite a large family, I feel it's important to keep them under control to prevent absolute chaos from breaking out. I need to teach them good behaviour, good manners, and respect, not just to keep them under control, but to help them become the best people they can be.

So listen to these situations and tell me if you think I might have a bad tendency to overreact and take discipline too seriously. If my six year old son, Cade repeatedly asked me during tonight's Christmas parade if he could cross the street DURING the parade and I said no, but he bolted out in front of a float anyway, would it be an overreaction to yell at him and span...

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pregnant


Posted Friday December 4 2015, 2:37 am

If a boy Fuck to girl for 2 minit, then the girl can got pregnant

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songs about not being interested


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 7:22 pm

what are some songs to tell someone you are not interested?

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Why doesnt he like me?


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 6:35 pm

23/F the guy i like is 25/M

We met on tinder (oh gosh) i know. I was with someone for 5 years and we broke up in June, i hooked up with a kid on my cruise in August and was like OK i can get through this so i decided to make a tinder. The first person i met i went over his house and he was great. Our first convo we had he said he made tinder to make friends was new to the area and just got out of a relationship because of the move wasnt trying to cross the line or anything. We kind of did the netflix and chill thing and for some reason i started everything and started hooking up with him and then insisted on having sex. I think part of me was because i was only with 1 person and i wanted to see what it was like having sex wit...

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Having touble getting hard


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 1:44 pm

My boyfriend is 25 years old (so am I) and we have recently started dating. After becoming sexual I've realized one thing - he's having trouble getting hard. We haven't had sex yet, well because he hasn't been able to get hard. We will be making out and he will be fingering me and still nothing. Last night he even tried to do it himself and it didn't work. It's frustrating for both of us but he says he just needs lube and he can get hard in seconds. Is this normal? I've never had this problem with past boyfriends. He said he swears its not because of me he's just always needed lube to get hard.

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Fingering


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 1:38 pm

I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 24. We just started dating about 3 months ago but recently started becoming more intimate. The thing is that when he fingers me he puts his actual fingers in and is kind of rough which I don't like. I'm definitely clitoral so I just like it rubbed. How can I let him know this without it being awkward or making it seem like I don't like when he puts his actual fingers in me especially so rough? I don't want to make him feel bad.

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18 yr-old still get abused by parents


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 1:32 pm

I'm 18 from a Southeast Asian country where all sort of abuse is common. My parents (real) still abuse me. Earlier my mother slapped my more than 10 times. I have a red mark on my left face. She slammed me on the table then drag me hair. Of course as an 18 who would fight to their rights, I talked back to her. I told her, "is that what you can do? kill me." so see continued so smash my face on the couch. I continued talking back to her like: I'm 18 it's my right not to get physically abused. i even told her that it would be ok if she'd only abuse me verbally because it would never hurt me. I started yelling at her when my back hurt a lot. I have a problem with my vertebral disk so it's dangerous if my spine will be hit.
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What does the Bible say about vegetarianism?


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 10:12 am

There's been something that's been bothering me for a while. Almost my whole life I've wanted to be a vegetarian, but come from a family of big meat eaters. I guess this is kinda my conviction. I know what animals go through in those slaughter houses and feel it's animal abuse. Hunting is one thing but I feel slaughter houses are too cruel. I don't want to support something like that. I know the bible says you can eat meat and that's why my parents make me eat meat. But it doesn't order you to eat meat. In Romans 14 it says not to judge those who choose to eat meat and don't those who choose to eat vegetables. But it also says that those who are weak in the faith eat vegetables. I'm wondering if that means I'm spiritually weak or its referr...

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should I or should I not be friends with my ex?


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 3:06 am

we broke up and he said he still wants to be friends. I broke his trust unintentionally and hurt him, and he's gone from so in love to not in love at all. he told me that he wants to be friends still, I don't know, maybe it's because we're good friends before we dated. he said there's no trust as more than friends, but trust as friends can be restored. but it feels as though everytime we talk about the past, he brings up the fact that I hurt him and inevitably I feel like crap everytime because I've apologized and he said he's forgiven me. he also said he doesn't believe anything I say, yet wants to be friends still. it's messing with my mind and also makes me depressed a lot more than I already am. should I even bother staying friends with him or not? thank you, guys.

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Losing my feelings for my boyfriend and Depression


Posted Wednesday December 2 2015, 11:51 pm

Now I'd like to start off that I have depression, for a few years now, I am 17/female. I don't know how this plays into this well enough or has little.
Anyways, for thepast month my depression has gotten hard on me, all the whileI've slowly detached myself from my boyfriend, and with trying to converse with him during those weeks has made him irritated from my lethargy and dealing with me, and soon I called myself off from him and became distant to him. My feelings just started to fade, feelings for him and also I couldn't very well identify my own emotions. It's gotten worse between us and before any of this problem I had made a new (male) friend. I had no intentions to have feelings for him but now they're starting to form little b...

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