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Thinking about giving a hot girl my number
So I'm 12 female. At the end of the school year (ik that's a long time from now but I want to make my decision quickly) I want to give a girl my number. I chose the end of the year so if she denys I'll have a long time to not see her and get over it. I'm not going to let her know my intentions, ill tell her it's to be friends, just in case we don't get in the same classes next year. What I'm worried about is she's rich, and has rich friends, in the rich side of town. I'm kind of lower middle class, everyone in my town is lower middle class or poor. We talk and I know she doesn't look down on me, but idk my life is so basic compared to hers. She probably lives in a house rather than a shitty apartment in a house with three bedrooms a bathroom and a kitchen. I wouldn't have a problem doing this to a kid from my town. It's the norm. Lets look at us, we've got one in a shitty apartment, another in a shitty apartment with one bedroom, another in a small shitty house, one who moves 10 times a week, one with a heroin addict mom who got taken away by the state and now lives with his grandparents in a shitty "house", twins who could barely afford their shitty house, and I know what it's like in her part of town...kids live in nice big houses and have nice money and multimillionare parents...meanwhile the wealthiest girls in my town are the ones with actually nice houses and a car that functions and isn't shit...
Idk i guess I'm intimidated by her life vs mine...
Should I still try it out with her?
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Sure, you could go with your plan but unless you want a greater chance at her wanting to be friends with you, you will need to cultivate that friendship, plant friendship seeds now. It would be the same thing if you were interested in a guy and make no contact other than minimal talk only in classes but never try to start acting like a friend toward a guy. If you walk up to a guy you'vee never really interacted with much at all and give your number asking him to call, its 50/50 chance that he will or won't. Kids your age, are so afraid of how others see them, being accepted and liked that often they are crippled by their fears and don't try at all. Right now, living in 2 different towns and neighborhoods, the only place you are likely to see her consistantly is school so If I were you, I wouldn't wait. The hard truth in most of our country is that the middle class has been slowly disappearing and its obvious to me that what we have now is the working poor, no middle class, and those who are rich. thats a big gap but we cant let that stop us from having friendships and relationships. When you say she's Hot, My guess is this is more about sexual attraction than a friendship and friendship is the way you've decided to get close to her. Its early for some your age to have figured out their sexual preferences yet. Its obvious when one is straight, but its not always black and white with the other half being gay. It could be she'll discover one day, or you will that you are bi sexual. Become close friends first and some time later when you both trust each other more, start convo's asking what she thinks her sexuality is. If she says she is straight, leave her be, and dont announce how you feel or you will change forever the friendship and scare her away.
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