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A Little Confused..


Posted Saturday December 19 2015, 2:31 am

Hi.. 17/F
Before June me and my boyfriend was fooling around and he was in me for less than 5 min.. I got my period 2 times since then and I think I am going to get it again now but I'm not sure. I read on the internet that you could still be pregnant even if you got your period.. I tried to get a pregnancy test but we have a very conservative family.. I have tender nipples and lower back and abdomen pain.. I have a few flu symptoms and at times I feel light headed, I also have a very big headache sometimes.. I don't have stuff like nausea od heartburn and I'm a little over weight but I don't feel bumpy'ness or anything swollen.. can I be pregnant or is it just pms?

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An ex-date keeps slandering my name online. What do I do?


Posted Friday December 18 2015, 8:55 am

This guy I went out with once and refused to go out with again keeps slandering my name online. After I told him I didn't want to see him again he harassed and internet stalked me for weeks. Now he's back to his old antics posting photos of me with my full name on dating blacklists.

Unfortunately I have a very unique name so when you google my name the only result that comes up is me and the fourth one down is the article about me being blacklisted. I'm worried this is going to affect future job opportunities. I already contacted Tumblr which is where it's being posted, but they can't seem to do much about it. If they delete his post he just makes another one a few months later. He never gives up.

What do I do?

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god and life getting harder


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 11:52 pm

if i am a belever in god and i want to get saved but life keeps getting harder what do i do ?

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Pregnant or not?


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 9:35 pm

This may be a long story and I'm sorry but there really isn't a way to cut this short. I had previously posted a question about a condom breaking during sex with my boyfriend. This incident was December 1st, the condom broke the second time we had sex and it broke before he finished so when it did break, the only possible semen that was in the condom was excess from the first time. I am on birth control but at the time of the condom breaking, I was only on my third official day of ever being on it so I was not protected from that when this happened. However, like I said he didn't finish and he pulled out as soon as he heard it and that was only when he was about half way in. He also went to get Plan B for me to take because I was a bit appr...

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Dreading seeing this friend


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 8:06 pm

In a few days I have to see an old friend who I've been crazy about for years but we never ended up being a thing. I've gone about a year now since seeing him last and have become a new person and don't want to fall back into the sense of admiration and respect and I used to have for him. He's overall a nice guy and a really good friend but also kind of an asshole and I'm SURE I still have feelings for him and they will all come rushing back once I see him and I'll be back to square one, trapped in this unrequited love I dealt with for years. I'm DREADING seeing him.

I just got out of another situation in which I experienced heartache with this other sleaze ball and I just feel really delicate and insecure and like this feel...

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My Friend Is Constantly Attention Seeking


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 6:49 pm

I have bad anxiety and I put a blog explaining why anxiety made me leave school so that people wouldn't ask questions, a few weeks later a guy I've been friends with for years but grown apart from came to me saying he has depression. I didn't think anything of it until he came to me everyday saying he wanted to kill himself, and then came to me with a knife saying he didn't dare cut himself so wanted me to do it, and asked for tips on the best way to do it. Ever since then I haven't wasted my breath on him, just listened. Nothing he says ever adds up: he was taking 20 anti-depressants a day, he said his doctor diagnosed him with depression and then told him that he was wrong and then re-diagnosed him and then told him it wasn't, he said tha...

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Should I confess to him?


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 4:56 pm

Hi i'm 16 years old and i am from the Philippines but i live in Holland. I really like this boy and i want to ask if i should confess to him. I like him for about 5 years and i just can't my hide my feelings anymore it's like mmy heart is going to explode. I can't talk to him privately because he is always with his friends. Please gelp me!!! (Sorry fpr my bad English)

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WAT IS A CAR?


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 4:48 pm

I don't understand what the definition of a car is.

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Questioning boyfriend


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 10:22 am

25 female. My boyfriend and his ex share a pet together. Last night I was over at his house and the dog was over because his ex had to do something. She called him when she was going to come pick him up and he answered the phone said "hi" and then walked out of the room. This made me weary becuase why would he have to walk out of the room to talk with her? When he came back in I asked where he went and he said "Away from Cooper (their dogs) ears like joking around. He then said Cooper your mom is weird. I just left it at that.

I didn't want to start questioning why he walked out of the room to speak with her. But it makes me wonder now. Why couldn't he just speak with her when I was right there?

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i dont know about my bf.


Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 12:53 am

Ok so my bf is 20 and I'm 19.
He said that he was a Virgin and I was a virgin.
But he tells me about his ex's and he was engaged to her at the same time as me but she is all the way in new York and he broke up with her for me which I'm living with him now.
I am worried that he still has feelings for her.
I also know its wrong but I looked were he talked to his brother in law and it stated that she was going to be using condoms with him to be "safe".
I have also caught him looking at porn flaming that he was getting ideas for us.
I need help because he is getting married to me and going to have a baby boy with me.

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Puberty: my friends are making fun of me!


Posted Wednesday December 16 2015, 9:38 pm

What do I do if my friends make fun of me for being late in puberty

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Truth & Right: mother of my kids and child support


Posted Wednesday December 16 2015, 5:08 pm

so I just want some understanding is it possible that the mother of my kids. mother put me on child support even tho I support my kids an I'm always there for them she wants to put me on child support cause I don't help out with the pregnancy bills but the job I have cant afford them an only have money for my kids an my bills. I live in Alabama I don't see why she think she can put me on child support when 1.i have no kids by you

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Insecurity


Posted Wednesday December 16 2015, 11:07 am

I'm really insecure in my relationship because of what happened to me in my past relationship. He cheated on me after 4 years together.

Now I feel like I'm much more paranoid in my new relationship. Every text he gets, every snapchat he receives, I'm thinking "who is that" becuase I'm so insecure from what happened to me in the past.

How can I try to overcome this? I know I need to try and take his word for things but I just can't help and feel like he's going behind my back doing something he's not supposed to. It all stems from my past relationship and how hurt I really was and how it just shattered my trust with any guy. My boyfriend reminds me how much I mean to him and how he would never do anyth...

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Trust issues


Posted Wednesday December 16 2015, 10:46 am

I'm 25, boyfriend is 23. My past relationship didn't end well, he lied to me about talking to another girl and ended up breaking up with me and dating that new girl right away. Our trust was broken. And now that I'm in a new relationship I feel as though this has become a problem for me.

When my now boyfriend first started seeing each other (not officially) he would always tell me that I was the only girl in his life and the only girl he talked to but I found out he was texting another girl as well. He did not hang out with her though. I couldn't really be that mad becuase we weren't exclusive at this point. But I was still weary. We talked about it and moved on from that. Well he still keeps in contact with his ex because t...

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how do you sex


Posted Tuesday December 15 2015, 10:27 pm

During sex how do you fuck someone


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Crying


Posted Tuesday December 15 2015, 9:34 pm

I'm not totally sure if this is in the right category, but here goes....oh and btw I am 17/F
I often find myself starting to cry at times when logically I shouldn't be crying. It's not like I'm crying out of the blue randomly, but in situations that should not be upsetting enough to make me cry. For example, a few weeks ago at work, I was told I had to do an online training thing. I sat down to start it, and then my supervisor told me that I actually wouldn't have enough time to do it and I would have to do it the next time I came in to work. It wasn't really a big deal, but I started crying, and every time I looked at my supervisor or thought about it for the next hour, I started crying again.

I also often have diffic...

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Various Period-related Questions


Posted Tuesday December 15 2015, 7:59 pm

Okay so I am 17 (obviously female). I have a bunch of questions, so I'll number them to make it easier:
1. When I first started at age 14, my mom did not take me to the doctor. In fact I haven't been to the doctor since I was 12. My friends say they all went to the doctor when they started their periods. Was I supposed to go to the doctor? Also my doctor is male and I don't like him much, can I just talk to the nurse instead? (ps I live in Canada if that makes any difference).

2. When I get my period, for the first couple of days I get mild cramps, but I also get quite bad pains in my lower back and the tops of my thighs. At times if I sit for any length of time it becomes nearly unbearable. Is this normal? My family d...

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Constantly broke college student


Posted Tuesday December 15 2015, 7:56 pm

Hi everyone! I really hope someone can help. I've been struggling with money for most of my life; I have never been able to save money or to budget properly.

I am a junior in college. I'm very lucky that I don't have to worry about loans or books. I live on campus, so my living expenses (aside from groceries) are covered, too. I work on campus, and am currently capped at 10 hrs a week, so I only make about $200 every paycheck (twice a month).

I'm ashamed to admit it, but I run out of money right before every paycheck. I'm lucky if I'm left with $10 in my bank account. I don't understand how my friends are able to go shopping or get their nails done or even go to Starbucks and are seemingly unconcerned about th...

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What happens to the face during puberty?


Posted Tuesday December 15 2015, 4:51 pm

I am 15 years of age and I have an enquiry. I know that during puberty your face changes but to what extent? Do you change dramatically from certain ages? When does your face reach full maturity? Does your eye shape change? What changed the most? Also, do you lose a lot of fat or a little?

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Bored


Posted Tuesday December 15 2015, 4:49 pm

Hello, thanks for considering my question.

I have nearly finished Secondary School but lately I have been finding myself BORED. I am tired everyday and just look forward until the end of school and I know this attitude is bad to have. I have been feeling really weird lately; tired, hungry but not hungry at the same time, a rollercoaster of emotions and a lack of enthusiasm. I have been sleeping a lot more than usual and my body for the past few weeks has been feeling low. My emotions have been a wreck and I just want to get out of school, out of my home and just do something. But I feel so wrong, bored, exhausted and irksome for the past 2 weeks.

In fact, I don't know what I want from this question. Advice? Jus...

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