Question Posted Saturday December 19 2015, 5:44 pm
I am a 14 year old girl and after I masturbate my lower stomach thighs and hips hurt even for a few days how do I stop this? or what medicines can I take ? Do I have an infection?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Dragonflymagic answered Sunday December 20 2015, 6:00 pm: The only thing I can think of is that when you masturbate, the stomach and thigh region tenses up for a long time without releasing the muscles until orgasm. That can make some muscles sore that dont often get use. If you've ever done a hard exercise workout and felt sore hurting muscles after, then you know what sore muscles feel like. One way to find out is to stop masturbating for a while and see if it goes away. If it does, start up again and see what happens and if that same soreness comes back, then its most likely due to some muscles getting exercise that haven't really got any or at least that intense a workout before. I am much older and on occasion depending on what we were doing in bed and how long and intense it was I can sometimes feel sore muscles in the morning.
What Dr.s consider a warning and need to see them is if a female has uncontrolled heavy bleeding from that area that wont stop and the other, intense pelvic pain that won't go away. Sore muscles is not one of their concerns. But at some point soon, it is a good idea to have your Mom take you for your first genecological check up to make sure all is okay. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Sunday December 20 2015, 9:40 am: We are not doctors and I am definitely not a girl so this is a hard question to answer for me and for some others.
I think it is possible that you are working to hard to have an orgasm, which your body may not be ready to give you or you may be masturbating wrong. For a guy masturbation is easy, for a girl it is a bit more complicated.
Most women are stimulated vaginally and masturbate by fingering their vaginas. There is a small percentage of women who are not vaginal in there pleasure and get little to no stimulation from fingering no matter how hard or long they do it or it is done to them. These women are clitoral in nature and will get of by stimulating her clitoris. The clitoris or clit as it is called is located above the vagina.
If you have been fingering your vagina and trying to force an orgasm this may be the reason for your pain. Try gently rubbing your clit. If this works for you then your clitoral in nature.
When you get older and are ready for intercourse you will need to tell your partner. For you will need to find positions were his penis stimulates your clit while having intercourse or positions where one of you can manually stimulate your clit during intercourse so you get maximum pleasure. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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