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Should i move on???


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 6:55 pm

I am a 20 year old woman and my boyfriend is 21. We have been togeather for 5 years and living togeather for 3 years. He has always said how much easier it would be if we lived in seperate houses, because we are constantly arguing over who's turn it is to clean what, and he drinks quite a bit. Now recently he is saying he feels like he holds me back and i could make something of myself if i never met him. I explain it wasn't him that changed me but at the same time i think he might have. We have to live togeather because right now finacially we can't afford not too, but i have all of these thoughts swirling in my head. I feel as if i am not getting anything but mixed signals. I love this man with all my heart and i know he loves me but i'm ...

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Child abuse? Neglect?


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 5:11 pm

Hello! I just move to a neighborhood and there are 3 little girls that constantly knock on my door and ask for food, band aids for boo boos, and to use the bathroom. We caught the smallest one in our car in the driveway trying to steal some candy and change out of it. She is about 5. My son gave one of them a bowl of applesauce and all 3 took turns taking bites. they did the same with some chocolate milk minutes later. They are outside and dirty from 8 am to 9pm on weekends and after school til dark. I asked the one girl why she couldnt go potty at her house and she said mommy wont let us in. After the little on stole from us I dont want to let her in though. She has been caught going in our garage and walks in our home without permission c...

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Homicide


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 2:59 pm

Iv'e been wondering for a while what exactly does the word homicide mean?

Thank you :)

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arthropods


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 2:14 pm

well for biology i need to write an essay on why arthropods are the most successful animal group. i need 5 reasons why they are the most successful. thanks!

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Double Standards Relationship


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 2:10 pm

I'm in a relationship with double standards. I have a standard set on me to not talk to guys who use to like me who are now just good buddies to have, yet I let her talk to all her buddies (she has more than me) who use to like her in that way and those are her close friends. All four+ guys I let her continue to talk to because I think it's wrong to keep friends apart for selfish reasons. I tried to reason with her, but it all blew up in my face. It's either her way or the highway. This isn't the only standard I have, it's other things also. I can't even bring it up without her leaving me. I tell her that these standards set on me actually hurt me, I'm not happy that I can't talk to my only friends. Her only friends are people that use to o...

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About internet friends


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 9:54 am

Is it normal for internet friends to last for as long as 6 years or longer? Do they usually end up meeting after a while? I have a friend who met this girl on Runescape when he was like 11 and they're still friends; he's 17 right now. I remember my internet friends only lasted a few months at the most...I just ended up changing my address and forgot to tell them...

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I made a mistake


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 7:50 am

so i was dating this boy that i really liked, and i broke up with him. it was a huge mistake like right after i did it i realized that i didnt mean it. He was just acting funny and so many boys have hurt me in the past i was just afraid of the same thing happening again. i felt like he was putting me off. ive tried to talk to him but he is like really mad at me... the problem is he is stubborn, like he wont even listen. we hadnt been going out that long at all but i still liked him. i really want to be with him. so i tried to talk to him on 2 days ago. i didnt talk to him at all on friday, i just wanted him to cool down. i dont know if he'll talk to me again if i dont say anything to him first. what should i do. everyone says that if he doe...

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Co-worker problems, please help before i punch her in the face!


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 6:33 am

've been at THIS job maybe 6 months.
I am a Marine professionally and a Caregiver in the cilivian world. This question relates to my caregiver job.

There's this older woman, Gilda, probably in her 50's, she & I rarely talk & even when I give her a report @ my shift-she acts like she's too busy to listen. There's a vibe about her, I do not like-so I keep it strictly business with her, other than "hi,good morning,ect."
Ever since I started working here, she has gone out of her way to make me appear that I don't know how to do my job.
She's constintly complaining to the assistant manager about nonsense.
Who then in turn "talks" aka accuses me of whatever outlandish bul...

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This guy is extremely confusing, I don't know what to do?


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 2:35 am


I met this guy at school a while and we've texted a lot and we've tried several times to hang out, but they all kinda fell through. We don't really see each other that much at school - big school, no classes. About two weeks ago I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said he didn't really want to anymore. So I figured, okay, whatever, I''m pretty sure he found someone else, but I could be wrong.
Welllll, he texted me last friday and said "so this may seem kinda weird but I miss you."
I was just like... what?? I'm so confused! He said we should hang out this week or weekend (im not sure which he meant). So I said sure and that he should text me sometime this week when he wants to hang out. I said it very ...

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occaisional sex with guy bestfriend. What?!


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 1:26 am

So here's my little pickle.

Met this guy, got wasted a few days later and had sex with him. Texted once in a while, but didn't really talk or hang out that much. Texted like buddies would. I was "talking" to someone for a very long time, and was sexually active with him, but we were drifting apart, and then something huge happened and we are no longer on speaking terms. So this brings me and this guy extremely close together, pretty much best friend status. BUT, we have sex every once in a while (but it is extremely rare, and usually when we are drunk, except I stayed a weekend with him and that was all sex pretty much).

So what kind of relationship is this? We get along so well, he knows about my h...

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I like her....how do i tell if she like me?


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 8:41 pm

There is this girl at school and we have been friends for about 5 or 6 months,not really a long time.But this girls personality is just great and she a gorgeouse,and we flirt alot.How should i win her over?

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Hurt!


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 8:36 pm

I recently started volunteering at a nursing home because I want some experience since I want to become a nurse.

Well a lot of the residents today weren't particularly well and this elderly gentlemen said something extremely hurtful to me and hurt my feelings. And I'm trying to convince myself that it doesn't matter and stuff but I keep hearing his voice in my head and it's really bothering me.

Help make me feel better?

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Posted Friday May 14 2010, 7:49 pm

what are these black tight things and where do i get them:
http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l2for0RrN11qza6kro1_500.jpg

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What does this mean?


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 7:34 pm

My Anti-Virus scan complete and it said:

C:\Program Files\InstallShield Installation Information\{498C777C-415A-44FC-AE23-BB0A6967D5AB}\RPS SafeConnect.msi

Some parts of this file could not be scanned because they are password protected. The real-time protection will automatically scan these parts when they are accessed.

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Does anyone know what the file is above and if I should be worrying or not? THanks

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I cant find the perfect song to sing


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 6:42 pm

Im a sparno2 with a very wide range from alto2 to a sparno1. So I can sing almost any female song that you can throw at me. Well I have a tryout next week for a musical and Im supose to be singing a song from any boardway musical that I want. But it has to fit my person. I in my late teens early 20s and Im not the romantic type. But Im a wonderful actress. Any ideas of what I should sing?

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Confused...


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 5:55 pm

I've been dating a guy since 2005 who has never been employed. I, too am unemployed but I'm unable to work an am on disability. I have 3 boys and this person is very kind and giving to them and me as well. We have out ups and owns but he is a good guy. He lives with his parents and two siblings and he runs errands for them, takes them to dr's appt etc and where this is quite commendable he is 37 and we cannot be a family when his family is so dependent on him. He has promised me countless times that he will find work and this is before the recession. He went to a 3 day security training program several months ago an every time I ask if he has received his background check info he says no and when I tell him this is taking quite some time an...

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ex issues


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 5:27 pm

Me and my ex had a great relationship,not too long...about 4 months. About6-7 weeks ago he broke up with me and we had obviously spent a lot less time together.We decided to become friends and we hangout almost as much as we did when we were dating.We still have fun and are so happy together and we get a long great.We just obviously don't do sexual things and kissing and all that stuff anymore.. I'm pretty much the only girl that's in his life and i don't think he's talking to any girls and i'm not talking to any guys...mainly because i still have feelings for my ex ..thats why i hangout with him so much. It hurts me to know he only sees me as a friend,but then again ,the occasional flirting happens and just by the way he stares at me makes...

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Depression. Bipolar. ?


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 5:21 pm

There's something wrong with me. I always cry, just yesterday a guy yelled at me and told me to shut up and I cried to hard I had to leave the room. I hate large crowds, and feel uncomfortable always. I have mood swings, but not like one minute to the next, more like one day I feel like I'm on top of the world- next I can barely get out of bed. Mostly though, I have to modivate myself to get out of bed thinking of reasons to go to school. I've tried thinking of happy thoughts, I've tried setting goals of happiness to achieve and nothing is working. I try so hard to be happy, and I never seem to be. I always ache, and I'm always tired. Even if I went to bed early. Going to bed anyway is impossible because my brain never shuts off. I can driv...

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Hurting while the world goes round.


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 3:42 pm

I drive all the way to see my girlfriend for lunch and when I get there, she is pissed off that I was late and she waited on me 5-10 minutes longer than she expected. We didn't have much time together but I thought it meant a lot for me to get ready and get up. I'm so depressed I don't want to get up but I did and drove all the way over to her school so we can see eachother for 10-20 minutes. When I get there she goes off at me. Why do I even bother with her. She takes eveything for granted and can't even wait for ten more minutes. I left the house right away after I called to tell her I wanted to see her. I got stuck at a few lights and I guess that's why it took a little more time. The second she sat in my car she was bitter and not for a...

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My long distance bf 'broke up' with me..but I love him


Posted Friday May 14 2010, 1:58 pm

I am a 18 years old girl from Hungary, the guy lives in the USA. I love him more than anything, actually he is my first love. We got to know each other through myspace and we have been talking for more than one year. Now his life is really hard because his mom is ill and he should spend more time with her. And on wednesday he just suddenly told me that he wants to start to work in the mornings too, so we wont be able to talk maybe only in the weekends. (We talk when it is 6 pm for me, thats his morning) It was so sudden and I told him I am sad about it. And he told me that from now he won't be online every day as he used to be and he is free now and he sets me free too. He told me that he is sorry that he choose work instead of me. He and I...

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