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ex issues
Me and my ex had a great relationship,not too long...about 4 months. About6-7 weeks ago he broke up with me and we had obviously spent a lot less time together.We decided to become friends and we hangout almost as much as we did when we were dating.We still have fun and are so happy together and we get a long great.We just obviously don't do sexual things and kissing and all that stuff anymore.. I'm pretty much the only girl that's in his life and i don't think he's talking to any girls and i'm not talking to any guys...mainly because i still have feelings for my ex ..thats why i hangout with him so much. It hurts me to know he only sees me as a friend,but then again ,the occasional flirting happens and just by the way he stares at me makes me feel like deep down theres still something. I'm so accessible though and im always there for him and i feel like half the reason we aren't dating is because at any given moment if he's ready,he feels like ill be there. I can't help it though! i love spending all this time with him because he makes me happy but then knowing it might not ever be more makes me sad.He even told me he hangsout with me more than anyone else and so it's hard to just throw him out of my life. Today is the first time in a few weeks that we got into a fight and basically it was over the fact that i still like him. I got seriously mad over his lack of care toward a certain subject and that's when he ended up screaming " im not your boyfriend anymore ,so don't pick these little fights like i am" and it was my fault because i started the fight and he said he would talk to me later about our fight so i dont know when that will be and havent spoken to him since (it was only a few hours ago) but im wondering if i should just break off my friendship enitrely and maybe he'll realize he misses me? or should i try and have good times for as long as i can? Its a tough decision.I planned on writing him a letter telling him everything and giving it to him before he went to europe over the summer and thats probably in like a month.help!
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I wouldn't break off your friendship entirely with
him seeing as if you were to do that you would risk him not being able to talk to you about the fight & you wouldn't be able to resolve the problem yes i think you should try & have good times seeing as you may not get the chance to do so enjoy it while you can everything happens for a reason & the fight was one those things that happened unexpectly which you didn't have any control over writing the letter to him would be a good idea so you can express how you feel to him(:
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