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My long distance bf 'broke up' with me..but I love him


Question Posted Friday May 14 2010, 1:58 pm

I am a 18 years old girl from Hungary, the guy lives in the USA. I love him more than anything, actually he is my first love. We got to know each other through myspace and we have been talking for more than one year. Now his life is really hard because his mom is ill and he should spend more time with her. And on wednesday he just suddenly told me that he wants to start to work in the mornings too, so we wont be able to talk maybe only in the weekends. (We talk when it is 6 pm for me, thats his morning) It was so sudden and I told him I am sad about it. And he told me that from now he won't be online every day as he used to be and he is free now and he sets me free too. He told me that he is sorry that he choose work instead of me. He and I made sacrifices for this relationship too and I don't know if it was too much pressure for him or he just doesn't want me anymore. I love him and I don't want to lose him, even if he is so far away, I wanna see him someday. It was the happiest period of my life. I was hoping all the time that it can work between us and I don't want to let it go just like this. What should I tell him to let him know that I don't want it to end? or just simply..what should I do now? I am sad.

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sunshine1232 answered Saturday May 15 2010, 11:38 am:
Things weren't meant to be between you two if he wants to start working in the morning then that's
his choice you can't stop him seeing as it's his life & he can do whatever he pleases his mother is ill and it's not like she's a stranger to him she's his mother his parent i'm sure anyone would to do the same if they were in his situation & it came to their mother it's not like he broke up with you without giving you reasons just because this relationship didn't work out like you would of liked doesn't mean that all hope's lost for other relationships i don't think that he didn't want you anymore it's just that he had responsiblities in his life his mother & work your best option is to move on everything happens for a reason you had no control over what happened what's done is done you can't change what's happened you've got to accept the fact that it's over or risk hurting yourself & becoming even sadder then you already are

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