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Double Standards Relationship
I'm in a relationship with double standards. I have a standard set on me to not talk to guys who use to like me who are now just good buddies to have, yet I let her talk to all her buddies (she has more than me) who use to like her in that way and those are her close friends. All four+ guys I let her continue to talk to because I think it's wrong to keep friends apart for selfish reasons. I tried to reason with her, but it all blew up in my face. It's either her way or the highway. This isn't the only standard I have, it's other things also. I can't even bring it up without her leaving me. I tell her that these standards set on me actually hurt me, I'm not happy that I can't talk to my only friends. Her only friends are people that use to or still like her in that romantic way. I don't know have to compromise or fix this without the opportunity cost being her.
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This really does not seem like a healthy relationship to me. Even without the double standard, if she is trying to keep you apart from your friends its a bad thing. If she refuses to listen to reason, then I would just ignore her, and if she confronts you over it, tell her flat out that you aren't willing to end your friendships for her. If she is threatening to break up with you for even bringing up a discussion, then she isn't a good person to be in a relationship with.
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