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Hurt!


Question Posted Friday May 14 2010, 8:36 pm

I recently started volunteering at a nursing home because I want some experience since I want to become a nurse.

Well a lot of the residents today weren't particularly well and this elderly gentlemen said something extremely hurtful to me and hurt my feelings. And I'm trying to convince myself that it doesn't matter and stuff but I keep hearing his voice in my head and it's really bothering me.

Help make me feel better?


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justletmebe answered Saturday May 22 2010, 12:02 am:
people say hurtful things all the time so dont let it get to you. he has no idea any thing about you so what ever he said is totaly just out of anger on something else. good luck and just remberer he didnt really mean it, it was just he is misearble maybe if you try to be extra nice to him it will help. nursing homes are a sad place try to brighten there day it will make you feel awesome and maybe they will be nicer to you good luck

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sunshine1232 answered Saturday May 15 2010, 10:55 am:
I'm sure the elderly man didn't purposely mean to hurt your feelings or did it intentionally he's harmless everything happens for a reason & it was one of those things that happened unexpectly which you had no control over it was one of those things that just slipped out he didn't mean to say it if he was one of the residents that weren't well he could of said it for that reason or he was having a bad day if it still bothers you then next time you go back to the nursing home confront the man and tell him what he told you really hurt your feelings & you'd like for him to apologize that way you'll have piece of mind & you'll know that the situation was resolved(:

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