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I made a mistake


Question Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 7:50 am

so i was dating this boy that i really liked, and i broke up with him. it was a huge mistake like right after i did it i realized that i didnt mean it. He was just acting funny and so many boys have hurt me in the past i was just afraid of the same thing happening again. i felt like he was putting me off. ive tried to talk to him but he is like really mad at me... the problem is he is stubborn, like he wont even listen. we hadnt been going out that long at all but i still liked him. i really want to be with him. so i tried to talk to him on 2 days ago. i didnt talk to him at all on friday, i just wanted him to cool down. i dont know if he'll talk to me again if i dont say anything to him first. what should i do. everyone says that if he doesnt come back or if he doesnt try to talk to me then maybe he really wasnt that into me and i should just let it go. and i will if thats what he wants but like i said he is stubborn and i really dont think thats what he wants. What do i do? i was planning on trying again today (anyone i have talked to has told me to wait for him to talk to me) but that might be a while. or should i wait a few more days or should i just let it go? I dont mind honest answers...or blunt answers i just really need to know what to do. its killing me not to talk to him.

thanks


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Lances-girl-18 answered Sunday May 16 2010, 10:02 pm:
You hurt him bad. Give him some time to think and breath. maybe after a while write him a letter or give him messages that you made the worst mistake ever and tell him how you feel if it doesnt work right away then give him more time he might come to you Dont bug him! if he doesnt want you back tell him what ever makes him happy makes you happy

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sunshine1232 answered Saturday May 15 2010, 10:28 am:
You made a mistake everyone makes them your only human & not perfect i wouldn't wait a while or a few days try & talk to him right away seeing as you don't know when he's planning on talking to you see what happens tell him you made a mistake & after you ended it you realized you didn't mean it it's not like you purposely meant to hurt him or intentionally did it i wouldn't let it go seeing as it's killing you that your not talking to him make him realize that what you did was a mistake one that you regret & you'd like for him to give you a second chance to prove that your willing to make it work & your attempting trying your best if he doesn't come back or doesn't try talking to you then yes he's probably not worth your time & at that point you should move on but you should give him the benefit of the doubt first & see what happens(:

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