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I need advice: I'm telling him to leave me alone is that the right thing to do?
Posted Saturday March 9 2013, 9:25 am
Okay so I've been having this boyfriend for like about 2 1/2 years . I resently Acussed him of talking to his ex so we got into an argument . I always acusse him of stuff like this by the way and during the argument he said I was a bitch because I keep goin on and on about how he was lieing and whatever ..so after he did that a few hours later I texted him and ask how could he say that and he still wouldn't say sorry or anything he was still upset he wasn't still calling me a bitch I mean that is like the first time he's actually said that to me so later on tht night I've been ignoring him and now he's just saying sorry and I'm telling him to leave me alone is that the right thing to do . ????????????
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Three some with my bf and my friend
Posted Saturday March 9 2013, 12:39 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month we are both in high school. My boyfriend asked me one day last week if I would want to do a three sum with him and my best friend at first I thought he was kidding but then today he asked again and before he did tell me he was seriouse but I said idk. But today I was talking to him and my friend on Skype. He asked again and so then I asked my friend if she would want to she was down w it but then I started to tear up bc my bf used to have a crush on my friend and he had one on her for 4yrs. And so I kept crying cuz I can't picture him putting his penis in her knowing the fact tht he liked her but he loves me and always says it but it feels weird. How do I get the image of them out of my head? ...
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Does he love me like he says he does?
Posted Friday March 8 2013, 10:11 pm
He says that he loves me, but he doesn't act like it. He has a big temper and gets upset easily. He only says that he loves me when he is asking for forgiveness for calling me bad names. Whenever I ask why he loves me, he says I am being sensitive. He asks me all the time why I love him, and he expects an answer or assumes that I don't. Am I over sensitive or ...?
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21+ answers please - Why won't my boyfriend return the favour?
Posted Friday March 8 2013, 10:08 pm
He likes to receive oral, and I do it for him every other day because I care about him and want him to feel good. He knows that I love it, but only does it for me 1-2 times every two weeks. He says he doesn't mind it and that it has nothing to do with my hygiene which is immaculate. He always has an excuse, like that he is tired or he is just not in the mood. Yet, he is always up for him getting it or having sex. I feel like there is something he isn't telling me, but whenever I bring it up, he gets angry. What should I do?
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i need advice: 19 years old and baby with 27 year old man who also has a girlfriend...
Posted Friday March 8 2013, 9:14 pm
i am a 19 year old girl with a 9 month old baby.....his dad is 27 and i really love him that might seems a little old but to me age doesn't matter....anyways i live with him and his mom...but since i had the baby he doesn't want to have sex as much as he used to do ......but when we do he tells me how good it was n he cant stop having sex with me.....he has a girlfriend that he sometimes spends the night with...but whenever he visits his mom's house she be calling him every minute...i think she don't want him to be around me r his child n i talk to him about it but he said that shes just in his life for a reason and a season....again hes a good dad and hes very loving and charming.....but i'm fastrated with the fact that she doesn't want hi...
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How to cope when my boyfriend shuts down
Posted Friday March 8 2013, 5:45 pm
I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We have been in a relationship for 6 months, but were acquaintances for almost 3 years before dating.
In the past week, he has suffered some pretty devastating events. On Sunday, his aunt suddenly passed away and today he lost his job. After his aunt's death, he was visibly struggling. He lost interest in sex and we practically had no alone time because when we would finally get home after being out wherever we were (usually his uncle's house) he would just want to go to right to sleep. I started to feel kind of neglected.
Then today, he lost his job. Right now he has to live paycheck to paycheck, which means he won't be able to pay any of his bills like the ca...
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Boyfriend of 2 yrs introduces me as a 'good friend'
Posted Friday March 8 2013, 8:21 am
My boyfriend of 2 yrs introduces me as a 'good friend' sometimes and I have told him it upstes me yet he still does it. Since we have been together so long I find this so odd and troubling. Does this signify some subconcious feelings of not wanting certain people to know he is committed? It's odd - it's not even women he does it with but men so it's not like he is hiding it fom women. Thoughts?
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Is it okay for your boyfriend to have a friendship with his child's mother?
Posted Thursday March 7 2013, 12:58 pm
I don't want to sound like a total freak out, but he sees her at least 4 times a week to exchange clothes/toys. We are in our early twenties and live together. They text all the time, and I've gotten to a point where I am just really uncomfortable with the whole thing, and he knows that. He says I have to accept that he has a child with her. I understand that she will always be in his life because of that, but in a way I feel like a home wrecker just by being with him. I feel like the other woman, when I haven't done anything wrong. I am having second thoughts. Maybe he should try and work things out with her for the sake of the child. Is what I'm feeling normal?
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In love with a close, 'straight' friend. pls help.
Posted Thursday March 7 2013, 11:47 am
My fucking god, she is so amazing and beautiful. i have fallen for her big time. We are pretty close and she trusts me a hell of a lot..
I would say i could be Bi.. But no one knows, atall. I do want to tell people but i just think it will pass. So, she thinks i am straight and when i compliment her its just me being nice... but i mean it with every fucking ounce of my body. I tell her she is beautiful when she feels worthless.
I think about her all the time.. i couldnt possibly tell her so how do i control this, what do i do - its out of control
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The Situation with my Step-brother...
Posted Wednesday March 6 2013, 5:06 pm
I'm a seventeen year old girl and two years ago I began to develop feelings for my step-brother (though in hindsight there were signs before hand). He is nearly nineteen and we used to see each other every weekend (I'll elaborate on that more in a moment). We have known each other for roughly ten years and we've always had a sort of love/hate relationship. We would annoy the hell out of each other and he would insult me/hurt my feelings, but when we hit the eight year mark and my other siblings (the ones I am related to by blood) stopped visiting my dad on weekends, things began to change. Before we would wrestle and be determined to win/injure the other, we wouldn't talk a lot unless we were insulting each other or disagreeing on one thing...
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help mee,boy problem :)
Posted Wednesday March 6 2013, 9:14 am
you know lana del rey's song - burning desire? well thats how i feel about one guy,hes in my grade from 4weeks and im totally crazy for him,but he doesnt know and im usually very social but im insecure when it comes to love,hes quite different though than other guys,but i think he likes me too,but what if he doesnt? i cant tell him how i feel,i fear rejection too much :/ how should i find out? oh and im 15 by the way
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its about boys...ofcourse :) haha,help me people
Posted Wednesday March 6 2013, 9:09 am
i need a boyfriend,but im so fucking picky,i like strange boys,dont give a fuck about the looks that much,i like weirdos and sad people,i myself am very weird :) but i like that,but its soo hard to find someone strange,should i lower my expectations or something?
ghostgirl7
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I really like this guy...
Posted Tuesday March 5 2013, 11:32 pm
I'm 13/F. I really like this guy, and I'm pretty sure he likes me back but the problem is this: everyone keeps telling me he is a total jerk. My best friend said she used to live near him, and one day he was riding on his bike past her house, and decided to pay her a visit. And by pay her a visit I mean, he got into this huge argument with her dad on purpose, and called her family some names that I don't feel comfortable repeating on here...
Another girl in my class used to go to school with him, and said he told her mom to 'go f**k herself'.
Yet another girl in my class, said she also knew him, and he stole her bike. (I'm guessing that was just the start of everything, because I think that was before everythin...
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What turns on a guy ?
Posted Tuesday March 5 2013, 7:09 pm
What turns on a guy?
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Does my boyfriend really love me?
Posted Tuesday March 5 2013, 7:33 am
Hi, we have been together for 3 years and we live together. he's a single father and in his late 40's.
as he's a quiet and laid back sort of person sometimes i find it hard to read him. when we argue i tell him, i don't feel loved by you, i feel ignored and he goes and says, yes i do love you even though i don't show it much, as he's not a showy person. is he telling the truth? thanks.
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Help! What's going on?
Posted Tuesday March 5 2013, 5:49 am
Hi, this has really nothing to do with love but it's about my body. I met a friend at a bar and we fooled around a bit. He fingered me and it was a bit rough since I was bleeding a little bit. Thought to myself that's weird and had my period not too long of ago. Anyways we were about to have sex and he went in for not even a minute, less than a minute. He pulls out. We stopped and I didn't want to risk it. Now estimating I start this month around the 10 th or maybe a little later. My concern is I'm super paranoid when it comes to sex with stds and getting pregnant. I'd figure right now it's getting close to my period and I'm getting cramps. I feel like I'm ovulating. However I'm getting cramps and sometimes I see a very light yellow dischar...
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How do I get out of this?(ex boyfriend issue's)
Posted Monday March 4 2013, 5:55 pm
So my ex wants to be friends with benefits and i don't want to be at all i want to be the opposite actually but because i cant say no i agreed and so we were fighting for a bit but he started acting really sweet telling me not to be so hard on myself and that he really cared about me and that the only reason he broke up with me was because i didn't talk to him then asked me if when i get back from Thailand for 3 weeks if we could try again I once again said yes he was being so sweet and amazing i just couldn't help it but now he wants to go for a walk and do "stuff" if you know what I mean but that's really not what i want but once again me not being able to say no i agreed but the problem is that i really like this other guy and ...
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I lose interest in guys SO quick.
Posted Monday March 4 2013, 3:30 pm
I feel like a man. Every time i like a guy (which isn't very often because im picky) im super interested and excited for about a month or two but once we start to get closer i start to push away. And its not that they suffocate me, its just I get bored and eventually disgusted by them . Our conversations start to bore me and he seems to become boring.
Its ruined a lot of good relationships for me and i think its beginning to ruin one right now..what is wrong with me?
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What happened??
Posted Monday March 4 2013, 2:31 pm
I'm hoping an outside perspective will help me figure this out. Sorry that this will be long.
So I met a guy at work and he asked me out. I'm 22, he's 19. He's shy, has never had a girlfriend, so I thought I could trust him.
Our first date was amazing and it got really intense really fast...we ended up seeing each other every day (even on days when he was busy, he'd still come by to kiss me goodnight). I slept with him, which worried me but it didn't seem to ruin things. He treated me like a princess and we were both so happy.
Then after almost two weeks he all of the sudden got weird on me...stopping wanting to see me every day...in four days I only saw him once and it was so different, he was way less affectio...
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im confused i love her, but i have to masturbate.
Posted Monday March 4 2013, 12:05 pm
so i really like this girl, and she has a boyfriend, im 13/m, and i masturbate. I dont masturbate thinking about other women, but im a small pervert. i dont want to masturbate, but i want to, a part of me says "yes" the other says "no".... what should i do? i really like this girl and i think shes the one made for me... please help!
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