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In love with a close, 'straight' friend. pls help.


Question Posted Thursday March 7 2013, 11:47 am

My fucking god, she is so amazing and beautiful. i have fallen for her big time. We are pretty close and she trusts me a hell of a lot..
I would say i could be Bi.. But no one knows, atall. I do want to tell people but i just think it will pass. So, she thinks i am straight and when i compliment her its just me being nice... but i mean it with every fucking ounce of my body. I tell her she is beautiful when she feels worthless.
I think about her all the time.. i couldnt possibly tell her so how do i control this, what do i do - its out of control


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MoRuthless answered Friday March 8 2013, 3:35 am:
What goes unsaid also goes unheard. If you don't say anything she will never know. As far as being gay/bi, that's not like a cold. It's not going to just pass. Being attracted to women for you is the same as me liking brunettes. Its natural. You can't change it and hiding of will just eat at you. Speak up. Let her know.

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mercury answered Thursday March 7 2013, 6:29 pm:
Hi! Why couldn't you possibly tell her. I think that as long as you don't tell her anything, things are going to get even worse. This is not something you can control. It's your feelings that are responding and if you try to restrain them, you'll feel miserable. Try to tell her at least something,any lead, some clue, anything. If not, I highly recommend that you stay away from her so you don't get hurt. Suppose she told you one day that she's in love with a boy What would you do? What would you say? I hope it helps you a little.

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