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I really like this guy...
I'm 13/F. I really like this guy, and I'm pretty sure he likes me back but the problem is this: everyone keeps telling me he is a total jerk. My best friend said she used to live near him, and one day he was riding on his bike past her house, and decided to pay her a visit. And by pay her a visit I mean, he got into this huge argument with her dad on purpose, and called her family some names that I don't feel comfortable repeating on here...
Another girl in my class used to go to school with him, and said he told her mom to 'go f**k herself'.
Yet another girl in my class, said she also knew him, and he stole her bike. (I'm guessing that was just the start of everything, because I think that was before everything else I just mentioned.)
But... He just seems so nice. I mean not like, overly nice, maybe just as nice as the average person. The point is, he doesn't seem like the kind of person that would do any of that.
I'm almost positive he likes me back. This is probably going to sound like I was eavesdropping, but I swear, I wasn't. My teacher had gone to ask another teacher about something, so everyone was talking to friends. The guy I like's desk is behind mine, and I had just gotten back from the bathroom, so I don't think he realized I was there. Anyway, I heard him talking to his friend about how he likes someone. I didn't catch the name, but I almost knew it wasn't me at the time. Then later, I caught him staring at me. But I thought he had to be staring at the girl next to me, as almost every single guy In my class likes her. He talked to me about twice that day, which is weird, because the only person that really talks to me is my best friend, and the only people he seems to talk to are pretty much always guys.
But anyway, later, I overheard (again, I swear I wasn't eavesdropping) a few girls talking about who likes who when they said something about who my crush likes, and I realized, the girl I thought he was staring at was with them, so it couldn't have been her. Again, I didn't hear who he actually liked so I can't be sure it was me. But I thought maybe, just maybe... He might like me.
Wow, that was long. I probably sound like the stupid, boy-obsessed pre-teen thirteen year olds are stereotyped to be, but I don't usually sound like this... I just really like this guy. Anyway, I was just wondering, do you think I should give him a chance, or just abandon all thoughts of asking him out?
P.S- please don't tell me I'm too young to date either... If I ever gathered the courage to ask him out and he said yes, it would be my first boyfriend, but I think I'm mature enough, my
parents think it's okay, and I'm fully aware that I could get hurt.
Thanks in advance!
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I mean, you can give him the benefit of the doubt and think maybe he's not the same which isn't wrong at all but if you do pursue this, be aware he might be that jerk that everyone says he is.
Before you decide to ask him out, start talking to him regularly and get to know him as a friend. Plus, relationships start better when you are friends beforehand. It makes it less awkward and it's better to start as friends especially when you are 13.
I believe that you are mature enough and since your parents are ok with it, then start talking to him and see how it goes from there.
You'll be able to tell if he's interested once you guys start talking more.
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first i think you should know him a bit, because if he really is this jerk than i wouldn't go out with him. But if he's not you really should cause of all these coincidences.
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i didnt read the whole thing,but about the guy(the "jerk") if you like him and he likes you dont give a fuck about what others say,go out and if he really is an ass just tell him to fuck off :) simple as that
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I am 14. And I learned a few things about dating. One is that you talk a little bit before you date. And all that stuff might just be your friends getting jealous because you two like eachother. But if your almost sure thats true. Do not chase him. And lastly. Don't ask out the boy. The boy asks you out. And if you don't end up dating In the end Im sure you'll find somebody better.
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