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I have small boobs..
ok so i have small boobs. I am 15 years old and will be 16 in may this year.I'm a softmore in high school and I am a B cup. it seems like all the other girls in my grade have big boobs that fill out their shirts but mine are just small i even wear push up bras but that barely helps.:( all guys ever talk about is boobs and I want bigger ones or atrleast decent sized ones to my body is proportional. I have a nice butt alot of guys say but i have never once ever heard a guy tell me i have nice boobs. Its frusterating, what can I do to help this situation?
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Ok well first of all, you're still 15 and you could still be growing.
Second, I used to be insecure about my size too. I'm 18 and also a B cup but then I realized once I heard all my guys friends talking about chest size and what they liked. They preferred smaller because they are perkier, and one of them said, "they don't get in the way" lol. Anyways, the boys your age, of course all they talk about is size because they have hormones and they want sex.
Honestly, if a guy you don't really know or a guy who is your friend comes up to you and tells you that you have nice boobs, that's not a good thing. You'd rather attract a guy that isn't there for physical things.
Anyways, my advice is to not worry about it because you can't change it, just accept and love your body because when you become intimate one day, your man will love your body too.
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well.. a few thoughts
first of all, I have small breasts too, and in my experience, some men really like that. they might not be able to tell that you have nice breasts with your shirt on, but once you get to the stage (hopefully when you are in love and have known eachother a long time) where he's seeing you topless, a lot of guys are excited by small breasts because it generally means they are nice and perky! I used to be so insecure about it, I can remember crying about it as a teenager. But it really is a preference some men have, and then aside from that, a man who loves you on the inside will be naturally attracted to your body. I don't like how a lot of people are saying "a man who loves you just won't care", because he WILL care. he isn't going to be indifferent to the body of the woman he loves, but the fact is, he will love every aspect of you including your breasts, passionately! And feel blessed every time he gets to look upon it or touch it. It might sound cheesey, and it took me years and countless boyfriends to figure out, but with the right person you won't have to force it or worry about any of this, the chemistry will just be there, and be glaringly obvious. Don't worry about it! your body might still change, but I know my breasts were fully developed at that age, so who knows. everyone is different. The cool thing about our incredably diverse world is that for every body type, there is somebody somewhere who considers that the ideal. :)
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Hi, at 15 your still going through puberty and your body and breast could change. Still the normal size for breasts are a B cup.
It is kind of funny but girls worry about the size of their breasts and boys about the size of their penis. The Breast and penis are part of us to supply certain functions. Breasts are to supply milk for your children when you have them. Be you a Double A cup to a double D cup they will still supply the same amount of milk.
Large or small a boys penis will still allow him to urinate and to impregnate a women. So size is not really a problem for the functionality.
As for sex appeal well everyone has their own thoughts about that. But one thought is always true. It is not you breasts that you future husband is going to marry, they are just part of the package. Sex is only a small part of a relationship. At some point you wake up one morning and need to talk to each other. If the only thing you have in common is sexual attraction then you have no relationship.
Your body is fine the way it is. Teenage males have no idea what they are talking about in the first place. When it comes time to find the right man to marry the size of your breasts is not what is going to be important it is the size of your heart and the love you have for each other.
Your beautiful just the way you are.
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if its the right guy he wouldnt just care about ur boobs and honestly you shouldnt care that much either :) just try to love yourself the way you are,plus some girl grow till their 18 dont worry
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Every you likes different things. My friend is a total boob guy. While girls with big boobs is all he ever talks about. I on the other hand don't care about boobs. I love a nice butt.
Point being... No 2 people have the same attractions to someone. Just be happy with yourself. Someone will like you for who you are.
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Hello,
I am 19 years old and I'm an A cup. So consider that you're about 4 years younger than me and have bigger boobs. In fact, a B cup is NORMAL. I'm happy with my size of my chest and I'll tell you why you should be too:
When I was in high school, I felt the same way as you do now. High school boys can be mean and perverted, a combination that tends to make girls feel bad about themselves, for whatever reason. Boys would tease me and it made me feel like having small boobs was a dysfunction of some sort. Like my body didn't fully develope. But it took me time to realize that was how MY body was SUPPOSED to develope. Some girls have the misfortune of triple D cup sizes or bigger.
Now I'm in college. And guess what: GUYS DON'T CARE. Of course, there are the few guys who have huge attractions to larger breasts. The same way you might be attracted to brown hair or I'd be attracted to green eyes. We all have different traits. And since you're only 15, you won't be fully developed for quite a while, meaning IF you were serious enough to get implants, most doctors wouldn't even operate on you until you're at least in your early twenties. That being said, you should learn to love your body the way it is.
I know that might not be what you want to hear. But if a guy cares SO MUCH about boobs that it determines his interest in a girl, doesn't that make him a little pathetic? Besides, guys just want things to pick at. If you had big boobs, they'd make fun of your hair or clothes or teeth. It can be frustrating when clothes don't fit the way they should, but if you don't love yourself now, you could be damaging your self-confidence... which is something that is attractive to everybody.
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