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im confused i love her, but i have to masturbate.
so i really like this girl, and she has a boyfriend, im 13/m, and i masturbate. I dont masturbate thinking about other women, but im a small pervert. i dont want to masturbate, but i want to, a part of me says "yes" the other says "no".... what should i do? i really like this girl and i think shes the one made for me... please help!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
This activity has nothing at all to do with how much you love someone or not. Guys in relationships married, dating, etc. do this and 90% of males do and 77% of females while actively involved with a partner. It's healthy, normal and not to worry about. Do it if you enjoy it and if not don't but do not
have guilt over it. In all honesty and reality she probably does it too regardless of interest in you. It also does NOT at all mean you are a pervert either for doing it even if you do think of this person, other girls etc. That's all normal and natural for both sexes actually. So, I would relax about it as it's so common.
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First of all, you're 13 years old. Masturbation is completely natural for boys/girls going through puberty. It's nothing to be ashamed of, though of course, you don't want to go around to all your friends and say that you do it. It's a personal matter. With all of your hormones going haywire, you'll get the urges to do so, and it is also a good way to get to know your body.
Second, about the girl of course, she has a boyfriend, so all you can do is respect her relationship with him, and who knows? You are all very young, they may break up, and in time you may end up being her new beau. You don't want to interfere with another's relationship though, as it could cause issues later. If anything, just continue being her friend, and who knows, you two may end up being a couple in time. If not, remember, there are other girls that will make you feel the same way she does. Trust me, even though one person seems as though they are the only one for you, there are literally thousands just like that person. Though they may not look exactly like her, they may or do have the same qualities as she does.
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