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I lose interest in guys SO quick.
I feel like a man. Every time i like a guy (which isn't very often because im picky) im super interested and excited for about a month or two but once we start to get closer i start to push away. And its not that they suffocate me, its just I get bored and eventually disgusted by them . Our conversations start to bore me and he seems to become boring.
Its ruined a lot of good relationships for me and i think its beginning to ruin one right now..what is wrong with me?
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There's nothing wrong with you. I'm the exact same way. It's a miracle that I've been with the same guy for 4 years now. People get bored with each other, just have to spice things up! Do something new like something you've both been wanting to do, but never did. I think they seem to become boring because they end up being so predictable and unspontaneous. They're probably getting really comfortable with you.
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Nothing's wrong with you at all. I'm the exact same way. I had a trend where guys wouldn't make it past 3 months up until I met my husband 7 years ago.
Just because a guy is great doesn't mean he's long term relationship material. It takes more than "he treats me well and is cute" to make a real relationship. You have to have real long-term compatibility and you have to be able to keep each other on your toes. There's nothing wrong at all with being choosy.
Once you find the right guy you'll find yourself surprised at how easy it is to keep things new and fresh.
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We cannot tell you what's wrong
It sounds like you have a fear of commitment. You become used to the relationship and the excitement tones down. Are you afraid of becoming close with someone? Most people who fear beong rejected tend to run for the hills.
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Not a damn thing. You crave excitement and change. If he can't keep you entertained and try new things. He's not the one for you. I'm the same way. I always have to do something new and exciting. Everything from something big like skydiving to something small like trying new food. The good news is that you are happy with who you are. The bad news is, guys that aren't afraid of change are a rare breed.
Live fast die fun
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