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i have a large labia and i'm very insecure about it, yes i have been fingered and had sex but no-one has said anything to me but i wanted to know can the boy feel it in case they are talking about me and i don't know about it. someone help me? also is it a turn off?? (link)
Every woman is completely different "down there". I guarantee that the guy never notices because he's too busy focusing on other things. I think you're just thinking yours is "large" because of what you may have seen in porn magazines or videos. All that stuff is fake, you should never try to compare yourself to that.


I feel like a man. Every time i like a guy (which isn't very often because im picky) im super interested and excited for about a month or two but once we start to get closer i start to push away. And its not that they suffocate me, its just I get bored and eventually disgusted by them . Our conversations start to bore me and he seems to become boring.
Its ruined a lot of good relationships for me and i think its beginning to ruin one right now..what is wrong with me? (link)
There's nothing wrong with you. I'm the exact same way. It's a miracle that I've been with the same guy for 4 years now. People get bored with each other, just have to spice things up! Do something new like something you've both been wanting to do, but never did. I think they seem to become boring because they end up being so predictable and unspontaneous. They're probably getting really comfortable with you.


So my ex wants to be friends with benefits and i don't want to be at all i want to be the opposite actually but because i cant say no i agreed and so we were fighting for a bit but he started acting really sweet telling me not to be so hard on myself and that he really cared about me and that the only reason he broke up with me was because i didn't talk to him then asked me if when i get back from Thailand for 3 weeks if we could try again I once again said yes he was being so sweet and amazing i just couldn't help it but now he wants to go for a walk and do "stuff" if you know what I mean but that's really not what i want but once again me not being able to say no i agreed but the problem is that i really like this other guy and we've been getting really close he's amazing i'm not gonna get into details about him but he's exactly what i'm looking for and I think he's gonna ask me out soon (hopefully) but if we end up doing stuff it will wreck everything :'( anyways how the **** do i get out of this btw I've already ditched him twice and i have social anxiety which makes this all so much more difficult because well i have trouble talking ect. what do i do!? :( how do i get out of this?? :( (link)
The other person that commented on your answer definitely hit the nail on the head!

LEAVE. He seems like he's a real scumbag and that he's using you because he knows you'll say yes. I would steer clear from this guy and see what could happen with the new guy. What happens if you mess with the ex and then the new guy wants to get with you.. Then he finds out? He'd leave you. So I would say, "Lose the zero and get with the hero" LOL.


I visited a cancer patient and was wondering. I wasn't wearing a mask or anything. (link)
Cancer is DEFINITELY NOT contagious.


Is it normal that I don't have my period and I'm almost 13 all of my friends have their period and there younger than me
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It is COMPLETELY normal. It differs between each woman. I have a friend that didn't get it until she was almost 17 years old. I wish I didn't for that long, LOL.


Hi, we have been together for 3 years and we live together. he's a single father and in his late 40's.
as he's a quiet and laid back sort of person sometimes i find it hard to read him. when we argue i tell him, i don't feel loved by you, i feel ignored and he goes and says, yes i do love you even though i don't show it much, as he's not a showy person. is he telling the truth? thanks. (link)
I can't tell you for sure if he's telling the truth or not. But sometimes I feel that exact same way. Guys have a different way of showing their affection then females do. However, I tend to be the not-so-showy type. I'm sure if he didn't want to be with you, he would have broken up with you. Stop worrying. :-)


i had sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago and my period hasn't come since and i'm worried that i might be pregnant (link)
If you're not due for your time of the month, then I wouldn't worry. Did you use protection? If your time of the month is due, wait a few days and take a pregnancy test.


Ok so I think this guy in my class has a crush on me I'm not sure because I think he has a girl friend but any way he like's to take my stuff and just joke around with me like that in that sort of way but we talk sometimes and like he seems really nice and all and he really seems to act like he likes, because one day in English his friend Kyle is like John now your flirting with her you two should already go out he didn't say anything to that and I know he had to have heard it because he was staring right at Kyle and just gave him this deep stare the (I want to kill you right now look) So if you think he's flirting with me or not? Because I honestly don't know and I really want to know, so give me your honest answer and what I should say to him. P.S. I'm a girl lol (link)
I'm thinking that he probably does like you. If he gave his friend that look, I think it just felt embarrassed and weird because he called him out like that. If I were you, and you really want to know how he feels, I would ask him face-to-face. Or if you like him, tell him! Maybe something great will come out of it. :-) Good luck!




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