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Three some with my bf and my friend
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month we are both in high school. My boyfriend asked me one day last week if I would want to do a three sum with him and my best friend at first I thought he was kidding but then today he asked again and before he did tell me he was seriouse but I said idk. But today I was talking to him and my friend on Skype. He asked again and so then I asked my friend if she would want to she was down w it but then I started to tear up bc my bf used to have a crush on my friend and he had one on her for 4yrs. And so I kept crying cuz I can't picture him putting his penis in her knowing the fact tht he liked her but he loves me and always says it but it feels weird. How do I get the image of them out of my head? I can't take it an my bf is trying to help me and he apologized for bringing it up but I keep picturing him putting his thing in her. Yes ik he will do it back to me but still I can't get it out of my mind.... HELP!!
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It's so wrong of him to ask that of you. You've only been together for a month and he's asking you for a threesome. Some people don't have problems with that but obviously, it would impact you greatly knowing he's being pleasured by another girl. Honestly, do go through with it. It does sound like he's using you for sex. He's still attracted to your friend, he wouldn't ask if he wasn't.
This doesn't sound like a stable relationship.
Anyways, besides the fact that it isn't right of him, threesomes usually ruin relationships. Someone always gets jealous and normally when people have threesomes, it's with someone they don't know because things like this can happen.
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Ignore these ignorant judgmental tunnelvision replies and use your own brain like so few sheeple do these days.
1. Nothing wrong with threesomes, they can be part of a serious, healthy relationship (but usually cause failure or jealousy due to human nature and the latter is obviously a big issue in this case)
2 You've been dating for a month, you're under 18, neither of you are really "in love" or you have no clue what love even is. You've got a 90% probability that you're being used for sex.
It's absolutely hilarious guys like this get women in bed instantly, while weird nice guys like me won't even get talked to!
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You have to be true to your self this doesn't seem like you are untreated follow your heart it may hurt to break up with him but its gonna hurt even more when you are they are doing it in front of you put UR self first sweetie
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Edit: How the hell is my reply ignorant? I would thonk encouraging something that doesn't sound like a good idea in this particular situation to be a little on the "ignorant" part Dalamar. Excuse me for trying to help. Phsh
I agree with Mo on this one, Dump him.
Sounds to me like he is looking for a 2 way ticket. Meaning, he wants the best of both worlds and he is using this as an advantage. If someone is truly happy in a relationship then it should be about that person and their partner only. This relationship doesn't sound healthy for you and your boyfriend can't be completely faithful and committed to you if he has feelings for someone else. Not worth it
Need to find a new man and new friends sweetheart.
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If he asked you that he doesn't lives you. Flat out. You need to get rid of that loser before you get any more attached and you get hurt.
I would never ask a girl I was with for that. In fact my ex asked me if her me and her female friend could have a 3some for my birthday. I told her no. I love her and I am only hers. That is how a boyfriend should be.
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