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Dear Vikki
I'm 24 and from South Africa. I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now and before that we were only friends. I love him a lot and care about him a lot, but at times I feel that my insecurities gets in the way and it ends up in us having an argument about something small and stupid. See we have a long distance relationship at the moment and it is mostly when he cannot have decent conversation at night because his busy and then I start thinking "maybe he doesn't want to talk to me" , "maybe he doesn't find me interesting anymore and he will leave me for someone else" and I do know that he cares for me a lot and that he loves me and as soon as I think I have these feelings under control, it creeps in again. I don't want to lose him, because I was insecure and clingy. I never was like this in the beginning. I was cheated on before and most of the times it is when I'm away from him, when we are together, I don't have it and because of this it makes things hard for me. I care about people real fast and they can actually hurt me with words. How do I get past this? How can I get past my insecurities and not be clingy when I feel like these emotions are creeping in? I'm not jealous when it comes to being his girlfriends, because I know what type of guy he is. I know he will never cheat on me, but because I don't always see myself as beautiful, I'm sometimes afraid he will leave me for someone more beautiful than me. The guy that cheated on me used to say to me, that I shouldn't think that someone can love me, because there feelings will change. I was so deeply hurt.
Is there any advice you can give me? Guess I'm just looking for someone to talk to that I don't know personally!
Thanks!
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Hey sweetie your not alone !! Long distance is ruff I did long distance and the biggest thing for me was trust . You have to feel secure that he won't cheat on you! Being clingy happens sometimes we are woman lol!! Stay positive keep your head up it will get easier
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I want to die. I am 54 years old. and have lost everything.
Wife,children,home, friends business and all my possessions.
I live alone.
I have 5 Mg of Xanex and a half liter of Vodka. Will that be enough to end my miserable existence?
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Why would you do that !!!! You may think you have nothing but there is someone out there that cares about you I no you feel hopeless but don't give up !! Be strong !! Don't end your life don't let your kids think they have a weak dad ! You may have lost them but you are still there dad why do that to them
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how do you know if a guy is going to give you a hug or a kiss?
whether your in a car or taking a walk or.... whatever. (link)
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Sometimes the guy will be straight forward with you and tell you I'm gonna kiss you ! Or if you see the guy keeps touching you and is flirting with you he probably wants to kiss you more than likely hope this helps
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Hi, this has really nothing to do with love but it's about my body. I met a friend at a bar and we fooled around a bit. He fingered me and it was a bit rough since I was bleeding a little bit. Thought to myself that's weird and had my period not too long of ago. Anyways we were about to have sex and he went in for not even a minute, less than a minute. He pulls out. We stopped and I didn't want to risk it. Now estimating I start this month around the 10 th or maybe a little later. My concern is I'm super paranoid when it comes to sex with stds and getting pregnant. I'd figure right now it's getting close to my period and I'm getting cramps. I feel like I'm ovulating. However I'm getting cramps and sometimes I see a very light yellow discharge. Is this normal? I'm not sore nor do I smell anything. I hope it's normal. I normally get a lot of bad cramps around my period but I haven't noticed my discharge. I figured maybe it's my pee or being dyhdrated. I'm scared and I hope it isn't much. I have a stressful job so that could add to it
But it doesn't hurt. I also took a preg test. Negative
Sorry if there's any typos.
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At checked either way just to be on the safe side ! You never know :/ hope things are okay !!!
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Hey! This is my first time using this website, so I'm not really sure how to... oh well, I am 21, and my girlfriend is 20(only by a few months people, nothing creepy) so we were best friends since around middle school (junior high) and we started dating around my senior year, and her junior year. so we've dated for 2 years now. We hug, kiss, hold hands, go for walks, tell each other everything. I want to know if there is a way to turn her on. I tell her she's sexy, and she tells me she wants to have sex... (in bed) and i just wanted to know if there are any good moves or things to do with her. Also, is there like a good time to initiate sex? Thanks in advance for any help :D (link)
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Start by rubbing her shoulders then kiss her arm up and down and if she doesn't pull away your doing great! Then kiss her on her neck ! Always a turn on !!! Don't go to fast thoe take time with her
Hope this helps :)
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i get this feeling.i dont have it during the day,but in night,when im just laying down and cant sleep i feel this loneliness,i feel like theres noone who can get me.i really need someone like me,a soulmate maybe? doenst need to be a guy,just someone who gets me and im a very unusual girl so that will be hard,ive never met someone whos even little like me,except for my father who is the same but i cant talk to him about my dark side he doent have that and i do,i guess i need someone really fucked up,can i do anything about it? what? (link)
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Nights are always lonely ! Once we hit that bed and start thinking about everything that has happened in out day or days it hits us the most ! Night is when ur mind starts racing and your the most vulnerable at night ! Find out who you are first ! Before getting into a relationship because you want it to last ! Not be a week and its over ! Also if you can just write down the way your feeling at night it helps alot !
HOPE THIS HELPS!!:)
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Okay, so I want to be a writer.
I have severe chronic depression... I have several medications for different issues (none of which I take...) but lately I've been getting really bad... So I guess I have to at least go back on one of my medications....
The problem is I FEEL so different on them... No one else can tell, but I can and I hate it. It's worse when I try to write, it's like the pills erase my creativity and my emotions which fuel my work.
So I need help, because I may have my boyfriend make me take my medication daily (because I'm obviously not doing it by myself) so what my issue is is I need help being able to do the only thing I actually feel passionate about, and care about doing, while the pills I have to take restrict my ability to do them...
Please help!! I don't want to choose between my writing and feeling okay... Because I'll probably choose my writing.. (link)
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Taking medication sucks !! But think about it are you calmer when you have them in your system and its gonna take time for your body to get uset it ! It's not easy but your boyfriend can help and be your support system :) hope this helps in a way
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month we are both in high school. My boyfriend asked me one day last week if I would want to do a three sum with him and my best friend at first I thought he was kidding but then today he asked again and before he did tell me he was seriouse but I said idk. But today I was talking to him and my friend on Skype. He asked again and so then I asked my friend if she would want to she was down w it but then I started to tear up bc my bf used to have a crush on my friend and he had one on her for 4yrs. And so I kept crying cuz I can't picture him putting his penis in her knowing the fact tht he liked her but he loves me and always says it but it feels weird. How do I get the image of them out of my head? I can't take it an my bf is trying to help me and he apologized for bringing it up but I keep picturing him putting his thing in her. Yes ik he will do it back to me but still I can't get it out of my mind.... HELP!! (link)
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You have to be true to your self this doesn't seem like you are untreated follow your heart it may hurt to break up with him but its gonna hurt even more when you are they are doing it in front of you put UR self first sweetie
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