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Im still a virgin..
16/F
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and im thinking its time to have sex. Im kind of nervous and want to know what to be aware of. Some of my friends said I might bleed or something? I might cry or scream? what should I know before I actually do have sex and lose it.. I need advice asap please? Personal experience..anything ..
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Ok well, you guys haven't been together very long. I honestly don't want you to regret it. When you both are in love and you feel ready and you know what you're getting yourself into, that's when the time could be right.
But really, it's better to wait. Only because if something went wrong, you could end up pregnant, with STDs, or even end up suffer emotionally.
What your friends said was true, any of that could happen.
But really, sit down and think about this. It really is a big deal to lose your virginity and you really deserve it to be special.
I'd say just wait a little longer. 6 months isn't very long so you really need to make sure everything will be ok.
Relationships do change after sex, remember that.
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You're having sex for the wrong reasons if its just to say you dont have your virginity anymore. Very few relationships you're age survive forever. Its up to you, but I just think it should be for that special person.
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6 months isn't really long enough to give up something you should wait until marriage to give up cause once you lose it you can't get it back and then you change. I'm not saying you should wait til marriage that would be nice but if not at least wait like a year or so to see if that is what you really want to do. If he really loves you he would be ok with you wanting to wait and if he isnt understanding then that means he just wants sex and doesn't really care about you. Someone the really cares about you would wait until you are ready and not pressure you. I hope that I helped you some good luck.
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6 Months is no where near long enough to give up something you have kept for 16years. And yes. You will bleed because it tears your skin the first time and it (from what I've heard from girls) hurts like hell the first time.
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