I really hate and am jealous of my teachers husband what should I do?
Question Posted Friday March 8 2013, 10:17 pm
I have a huge crush on my attractive female teachers who is like 28 I believe. I am flat out obsessed with this girl I;d say, -I always walk by her room or try to go wherever she is and at the end of the day just to see her leave,.i 'm willing to buy any school related paper and yearbook just to see if any pictures of her are in it, I went searching for her Facebook account, and I found it and I find myself staring at a lot of pictures of her. I get mad just whenever I see another boy go up and talk to my teacher, but the worst thing of all is that she is married and I can't stand that she is. I have feelings of hate towards her husband just because she is married to him and want him to die and I sometimes like to rip papers up or something pretending it is him. Do you think this is a problem I should tell someone about?
adviceman49 answered Saturday March 9 2013, 10:35 am: You have a huge crush on your teacher. One that is way out of proportion to the norm for crushes. It is not unusual to have a crush on a pretty teacher when your young an going through puberty.
I had a crush on my 8th grade science teacher. In high school every guy in school had it bad for an English teacher who when we were Freshman was a student intern an now was one of our teachers. Now she took care of are ardor for her the old fashion way. She brought her boyfriend, a Marine Gunnery Sargent, to school one day in his dress Blues. Seeing him cooled us all down real fast.
You do need to talk to someone about your fascination with this teacher. You need to speak to a professional counselor as this is something in your personality that you will have to learn to deal with as you grow older. Today it is a teacher. Tomorrow it will be a girl you want as your own. Talk to your parents and ask them to get you some help as this is not just a crush. This is an anger management problem you need to learn to deal with. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Saturday March 9 2013, 3:40 am: Yes, you need to talk to an adult about this. It's a problem and it's not good at all to be stalking your teacher.
It is fine to have a crush and be attracted to your teacher but it's another level when you're stalking her on Facebook, getting mad at other boys talking to her, and imagining killing her husband.
Xui answered Saturday March 9 2013, 2:06 am: I think you should talk to an adult about this yes.
It is okay to find a teacher attractive but to act on it is not. You have become obsessed and are stalking your teacher via facebook.
You are a student, She has authority over you. It will not happen and it should not happen. This woman is married, meaning she is committed to her husband and that's it.
Student/teacher relationships are against school policy and she could loose her job.
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