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Member Since: March 10, 2013
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Last Update: March 10, 2013
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I'm 19/f

I'm on birth control for almost a year now but everytime me and my boyfriend have sex I'm still afraid that I'll get pregnant. I've been thinking about asking him to still use a condom so I can relax more about this stuff. I also dont really like the feeling when he cums inside me because it often burns. The problem is that I know he prefers having sex without a condom cause it gives him more pleasure.
So what should I say to him and how do I explain this to him? I'm really scared that I wont be able to pleasure him anymore.. (link)
I can't feel anything with a condom, and if I had a gf tell me that.. she won't be my gf. YMMV.


My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month we are both in high school. My boyfriend asked me one day last week if I would want to do a three sum with him and my best friend at first I thought he was kidding but then today he asked again and before he did tell me he was seriouse but I said idk. But today I was talking to him and my friend on Skype. He asked again and so then I asked my friend if she would want to she was down w it but then I started to tear up bc my bf used to have a crush on my friend and he had one on her for 4yrs. And so I kept crying cuz I can't picture him putting his penis in her knowing the fact tht he liked her but he loves me and always says it but it feels weird. How do I get the image of them out of my head? I can't take it an my bf is trying to help me and he apologized for bringing it up but I keep picturing him putting his thing in her. Yes ik he will do it back to me but still I can't get it out of my mind.... HELP!! (link)
Ignore these ignorant judgmental tunnelvision replies and use your own brain like so few sheeple do these days.

1. Nothing wrong with threesomes, they can be part of a serious, healthy relationship (but usually cause failure or jealousy due to human nature and the latter is obviously a big issue in this case)

2 You've been dating for a month, you're under 18, neither of you are really "in love" or you have no clue what love even is. You've got a 90% probability that you're being used for sex.

It's absolutely hilarious guys like this get women in bed instantly, while weird nice guys like me won't even get talked to!




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