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Dating a separated man?


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:55 pm

My boyfriend was recently separated from his wife and they intend on getting a divorce. Should I wait to see the divorce papers and put the relationship on halt until then? I really love him and it doesn't effect me as much as you might think it would. He is 20 and I am 19. He married young and admits that it was a bad mistake. What do you guys think? I really really need advice..


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Should you not be friends with an ex lover if you still love him


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:33 pm

This guy I use to be with on and off started to IM me again and wants to catch up well I think he might want to be friends and the thing is I want to be his girlfriend I've been waiting for him to be mine being on and off isn't good enough I want him to stay and not go anywhere so I told him I can't just be his friend I want a relationship with you I told him if we do catch up I don't want it to be we catch up as friends we have been doing that already I'm tired of that I want him to be mine. How do I show him I really want to be his girlfriend by the way I emailed him what I wanted only because we don't see each other in person as much now and usually when he says lets catch up or meet up it doesnt happen for a week hes a busy guy I couldn...

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flat stomach


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:29 pm

hello, i am skinny, i am only a size 8-10
(clothes wise) and i am happy with that, but my stomach is like getting bigger like a bump (as if i am pregnant which i am not) and i really don’t like it, and i want to get rid of it.
i have looked on the internet and there are loads of different things and i don’t know what to believe, so please can anyone give me tips of what really works!
does anyone else share my problem??
and how do i get a flat stomach??
how long would it take ???

and if you have tried anything and works tell me i really want to know.
Thanks


and if you have tried anything and works tell me i really want to know.
thanks


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california colleges


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:18 pm

i need to transfer colleges and i particularly want to go to california. so i'm a bit nervous to go in a city but i want to be near one. i've got two questions. 1. what city is best: LA, San Fran, or Sacramento?
2. (if you dont know an answer for this part its okay, i dont care as much right now) have you heard good things about pomona college (claremont) or California State University Stanislaus (Turlock)

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Painless Daeth


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 11:30 am

I'm a 20 year old female. I hate my life, I got Herpse from somewhere unknown I have alway been honest with my boyfriend. I also have erythema muliforme, which is an overreaction to the Herpse, every 3 weeks i break out i have black spots, painfull boils, itchy painfull blisters, and cold sores all over my body and face that dont go away, I used to be pretty now i cant even look at myself without crying.... I have thought to just end this pain and this hummilation. I'am a coward and i don't want to live as a monster... I thought about cutting my wrist,I think that would be a easy way, however i heard that advil od was also painless.

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I got played.


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 10:40 am

Ok so this might be a little long but please read and help me =]

So I just got out of a 15 month relationship in May. My ex told me that it was going to be hard to find a good guy that will treat me right like he did. About 2 or 3 weeks I went to open houses and such and then went to a bonfire with my friends. There was this really cute guy there who talked to me and stuff. I got his number the next day and we started talking. He told me that he was having people over later and wanted to know if I would come. I told him yes that I could probably do that. Well he texts me later and said that he is no longer going to have people over and wanted to go to a movie. So me him and my cousin and her boyfriend went to the movie...

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animation job


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 10:28 am

hi
i am 15 almost 16 and i have almost done high school, now i would love to be an animator, or work in CGI, i will have a total of 5 GCSE'S grade A in ICT so...as you can tell i love technology. and i am hoping to go to college,to study it as well,
does anyone know what i need to do to get that sort of job (like qualifications) ???
and is there an animation studios in the united kingdom? (for CGI things like toy story making)
do i need to have practise in the software they use ???
thanks for your time :)


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Cached - similar what does it mean


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 9:52 am

Cached -similar what does it mean when searching on google?


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I don't want to be just his friend though


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 9:13 am

I don't want to be just friends with this person I want to be more. So that's what I'm doing I emailed him it's just I can't pretend I don't have these feelings I don't want us to catch up as friends more like catch up and get to know each other as more than friends I mean we use to hold hands hug all that stuff we spoke about being with each other so many times I know he must care more than a friend but I just don't want to be only his friend I love this guy its hard to accept him as just a friend. He told me he keeps the messages because it makes him happy when he reads it its so confusing lol

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Banking with Heritage, Bank Cheques?


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 6:39 am

I was just wondering if I can get a 'bank cheque' from the Heritage Building Society bank, on the day. As in tomorrow.

I need one asap.

I need one immediately because I'm purchasing a vehicle and I only just remembered. I cant withdraw more than a thousand a day, so cash is a little difficult. Bank cheques seem to be most appealing to the seller.

Please help asap.

Brisbane, Australia.

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suicide


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 5:40 am

my cousin tried to overdose herself last week and yesterday i was telling her about when i was depressed and tried it myself- and I told her that if she ever needed someone to talk to that wouldn't judge her that she could talk to me...and then she rung her sister and told her what i had said...and Gemma told her that i had said that i wanted to hang myself, and I didn't, I did tell her that i think about it sometimes but i would never do it again. Now my most of my family is pretty annoyed at me for talking about suicide to her so soon after she had attempted it. I was meant to be staying at her house that night but my sister rang my dad and had him pick me up as soon as Gemma told her what i was saying. All I was trying to do was tell her...

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No sex drive after baby


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 3:39 am

So my husband and I have been married close to two years...together for 5. Since I had my daughter who is 14 months I haven't really been into sex that much...also I have been on anti depresants for a while and that drags down my sex life majorly.
I don't know what to do cause he is kinda needy that way and I feel like I can't be that way.
I don't know if I should try to go off the pills and see if that helps or cut down even more (already cut it to 50 mg from 100).
I just know how he feels and understands I just don't know.
What do you think?

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if the condom was used correctly does that mean i'm safe from being pregnant?


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 3:30 am

i'm 18/f

i had sex for the first time recently so my knowledge of everything isnt quite clear yet. my question is, even if i'm not on birth control, if the condom was used correctly (which i'm pretty confident it was) does that mean i'm safe from being pregnant?

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Is it ok to have sex with someone you work with?


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 3:12 am

Can I have sex with a guy at work?


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Why Don't I Have My Period Yet?


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 3:01 am

Im 13 and have had discharge for over a year and armpit and pubic hair for almost 2 years. No period.. whats the hold-up Mother N?

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sexual tension


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 2:03 am

I'm a 17 year old girl. I have a new guy friend that I get along with really really well. We just met but we started to hang out alone. I want to be good friends with him and potentially date him, but I don't know whether I'm attracted to him yet. Also, I want to make it clear that I want to be friends at [least for right now]. But he talks to me how he would talk to a girl he likes, by complimenting me and always calling and texting me and wanting to hang out all the time. I hate the tension I feel when we're together cause I feel as though he likes me and it makes it awkward when I'm with him. I wish I was sure that I'm attracted to him... any tips on that? And also..

How do I make him know that for now I want to be friends...

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Why are some people against interracial relationships?


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:17 am

From a 'black' person's POV

I don't get it. You can't blame someone for something their ancestors did in the past. And not every white person is even the descendant of slave owners, and not every black person is the descendant of slaves (w/ the whole American slave trade). Everyone has ancestors that did stupid sh** in the past. That is no excuse. Heck, everyone does stupid sh** anyways, cause humans aren't perfect.

Whenever the topic is brought up when I'm talking to my mom, she humphs. And it bugs me because I'm open to dating any race. I'm 16 and haven't had a boyfriend yet, but I wonder what my mom would think if the person isn't black, or even African (I'm Cameroonian). The only reasoning I've heard from h...

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Does he just want to hook up with me? I want a relationship!


Posted Friday June 25 2010, 12:16 am

Ok, I've met this guy online and he's really good looking and he tells me i'm sexy and really cute. He talks about how he wishes we lived closer. We also talk about how we (along with alot of friends) should all go out camping sometime but then he said that we should get our own tent and I know that he just wants a hook up there but how do I tell him that I don't just want to hook up and I would like a relationship? When he says stuff like that, I just agree because I don't want him to lose interest.
Thank you!!! (p.s. I'm 20 and he's 19 and I'm still a virgin but he doesn't know :-/ )

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How Long after I stop tanning will my pale skin come back?


Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 10:57 pm

When I was young, I had pale skin, over the years I have done a lot of tanning but now I want my pale skin back, what can I do? and how long? It seems stuck, it has not faded yet, on yahoo they say about a month but i have been tan for a good couple of years, can I still get pale again? my mom is dark but when she was young she was pale. I don't want to stay dark anymore, I have a bit of tone from my spanish side and pale on the white side, my dads like paper & my mom like honey. I get tan quickly & some of my siblings can't get tan for crap.

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The guy I really like started to talk to me again not sure what this means?


Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 10:45 pm

So I guess I'll explain the relationship between me and the guy I'm talking about we basically started as friends and became more we have a lot of physical chemistry and whatever we used to sort of date he would take me to the pizzeria he would alway pay and act like a real gentleman and whatever I never kissed him because we weren't an actual couple and I just can't kiss someone unless we are. Anyways we ended whatever we were last spring 09 because of some other girl and we also got back together last fall and we were really close and def had plans to be together but somehow it didn't work out and he just stopped talking to me for a few months I think it became stressful because we live 30 min away it was hard to keep it going plus theres...

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