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Should you not be friends with an ex lover if you still love him
This guy I use to be with on and off started to IM me again and wants to catch up well I think he might want to be friends and the thing is I want to be his girlfriend I've been waiting for him to be mine being on and off isn't good enough I want him to stay and not go anywhere so I told him I can't just be his friend I want a relationship with you I told him if we do catch up I don't want it to be we catch up as friends we have been doing that already I'm tired of that I want him to be mine. How do I show him I really want to be his girlfriend by the way I emailed him what I wanted only because we don't see each other in person as much now and usually when he says lets catch up or meet up it doesnt happen for a week hes a busy guy I couldn't wait so I hope I didn't mess anything up I just want to be honest with how I feel. I think he does like me too I just wish I could show him and make him mine not force him to be mine but I want him to fall in love with me since I adore him.
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You should NOT be friends with an ex lover if you still love him.
Break away for awhile, enjoy being single, and work on you.
If you still have feelings for him, and you talk to him, it is only going to create more drama for yourself!
As far as wanting to make him fall in love with you, it will only frustrate you because you can't control other people's emotion. (but wouldn't that be awesome if you could!)
I also recommend looking up facts about love addiction.
here is a link to some useful info.
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Good Luck! And Move on sweety!
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Leave him for good and let him have a chance to miss the great catch that you are. If he doesn't come around soon with more serious intentions then you know it was not meant to be. You do not want to be with someone who doesn't treasure you the way you treasure them. You seem to have good instincts as to what you feel you deserve. Don't ignore those instincts. Don't settle. If its not fulfilling, move on... you may be missing Mr.Right by spending so much energy on Mr.Right Now.
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