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I got played.
Ok so this might be a little long but please read and help me =]
So I just got out of a 15 month relationship in May. My ex told me that it was going to be hard to find a good guy that will treat me right like he did. About 2 or 3 weeks I went to open houses and such and then went to a bonfire with my friends. There was this really cute guy there who talked to me and stuff. I got his number the next day and we started talking. He told me that he was having people over later and wanted to know if I would come. I told him yes that I could probably do that. Well he texts me later and said that he is no longer going to have people over and wanted to go to a movie. So me him and my cousin and her boyfriend went to the movies. After the movie a bunch of people were going to go to his house. He asked me to ride with him home and I said sure. So we are talking and in the middle of no where he tells me that he wanted to hold my hand during the movie. So im secretly like freaking out! Well we all hangout at his house and that was that. Then the next day he came and got me after work and we went back to his place and watched a movie alone. We cuddled and held hands for like a second till he told me I had big hands! hah.. Well anyways we flirted and talked and just had a good time. Then the next day me, him and my cousin and her boyfriend go to the drive in. He didnt take his truck so we were all laying down squooshed in the back of a Dinali (SP?) So we are cuddling and he is tickleing my arm and all that stuff. Break time comes and then the second movie is going to start. We let my cousin and her boyfriend get situated. As they are, he totally pulls me towards him and makes out with me! Man I was freaking outtt. It was so weird cause he was the first guy I had kissed since my ex. Well then we lay down and he starts kissing me again..and then again. As we are kissing he like grabbed my face and was rubbing it and just looking into my eyes. I was thinking man my ex was totally wrong. This guy is amazing. He even texted me when he got home and told me that he had a good time. Well my open house was that Saturday. We hve this place where you can line dance and stuff right. We were all planning on going after my open house. I text him to make sure plans were still good and he was like yeah and asking if I was going. I told him I wasnt sure because I had alot to do and he said "please =]". So im thinking ok he wants me to go. So i go and he ignores me the WHOLE night. I was crushed. like WTF!? So i find out later that he was mad at me cause he didnt get any when we hung out alone? But yet the next day he went with me to the drive in? That does not make any sense. So im acting like a crazy person because I want answers. The only thing I got out of him was that he doesnt want a relationship and he didnt mean to lead me on. If you didnt want a reltionship then you should have told me! Right?! Well a few days went by and I texted him and told him I was sorry for acting crazy. He said "its chill." So we are on better terms. I was in town with my mom and he is right in front of us at the light. So I texted him and was like hey you were in front of me. We talked just as friends and I let him get the last word in. Then about 45 minutes later, he texts me! WTF!? What am I supposed to do? What does this mean? Should I have known fro the beginnning I was getting led on? What are signs of that? Im just so pissed and hurt. Im so stupid!
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your ex is wrong, they're many other men out there for you, but finding the right one is almost impossible esp with the divorce rate in America.
just saying let alone that he is the 'only' best guy for you is proving he's not the guy for you, for the right guy who loves you for you wouldn't say something as selfish as that, but would rather tell you he hopes the best for you
being in a relationship is about giving not receiving, keep that in mind.
as for the other guy, the guy that you so quickly gave into... that is a reaction to finding someone new so quick and also just being stupid
you're a big girl, you can handle yourself?
don't be so quick to get into a relationship
and if you must, then find one that isn't sexual from the start, or that isn't about sex.
have you had sex already? maybe staying single for now or years to come is the best idea.
stay away from sexual immorality. All other sins committed are outside the body, but those that sin sexually sins against their own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18
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