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forgotten how to be happy in a relationship?
Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 6:40 am
I have ben hurt many times by guys. Too many times! I always seem to fall for the wrong type, and I really mean the WRONG type! They all seem great at first but then the truth comes out. My ex-boyfriends have either been phycos, nymphos, mythomaniacs, cheaters or just plain assholes!! I have lost count on how many night I have fallen asleep crying! I thought I had given up on boyfriends and then my present boyfriend came along and seems really nice and all. Sure, he cheated on me once in the begining of out relationship but that's normal for me now, I guess that's just a thing that guys do so I have him a second chance.
So now we are together and I can't seem to be happy when I'm with him!! I'm just waiting for when he is going to hu...
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What's wrong with me?!?
Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 6:30 am
Whenever I'm not with my boyfriend I'm happy. And when I'm on my way to see him I think to my self "why didn't I cancel? Why am I going to see him. I don't want to see him!"
But when I do meet him and when I'm with him, I like it and I want to be with him. But then When I have to go I get happy for leaving him!
What's that all about?? Don't I like him? Is it somethig wrong with me??
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Guy = honry! = annoying!!
Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 6:27 am
Hey! My boyfriend is really horny. I know, he is a guy but come on! He wants to have sex 24/7!! We haven't had sex yet. I want to but when ever he has tried to go for it there has been sort of a crowd there =/
1 st time he tried/wanted: on a buss!
2nd time he tried/wanted: outside of a metal consert up against a steel wall with peple just around the corner
3rd: on gravel right infront of a parking lot with at least 15 car wich had their light on. SPOTLIGHT!
4th: at a café!!!
Seriously, does that sound hot or just weird??
Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm a virgin and I do want to sleep with him...just not in thoose places =/
What should I do?
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Once a cheater- always a cheater??
Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 6:21 am
My boyfriend cheated on me one week after we got together. Now I have taken him back (about 2 weeks after he cheated on me). All of my friends thinks it's a misstake but I believe in second chaces and I like this guy...All advicenators out there do you believe in the term- "once a cheater, always a cheater"??
Was it a big misstake to take him back, should I dump him for what he did to me?
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Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 3:29 am
ok so i like my friend named jake and like he knows it and stuff and like i went out with this guy and tried to make him jelous and yeah well like this summer he hasnt been like talking to me or anything like we just got off the phone and we were on for 45 min but he was just talking to me about his summer and stuff and making me all jelious cause he was like o chelsea(chelsea is jakes little sisters friend) asked me out and i didnt wanna be rood so i said yeah and (stuff so i started to cry but he didnt no and stuff soo the whole time he was just talking and stuff i was pissed off and hes supposed to come sleep over on friday and like yeah i dunno wut to say and o yeah hes like call me later cause im getting tired so i was like ok and hes...
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how??
Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 1:17 am
what is a good way 2 ask a boy out???
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shy or embaressed?
Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 12:05 am
idk why..but for some reason i get embarressed or shy or even nervous if a guy calls or comes over to my house..and i dont wanna be anti social with guys..but im always like afraid of what my parents might think or something. or im scared to have a boyfriend because im afraid of what my parents might think? anything helps!! thanks a bunch! =)
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is he really interested?? sorry its soo long!!! :/
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 10:32 pm
So i really like this kid. hes 2 years older than me and has a brother my age. He always talks to me and makes me laugh..and talks to me at school alot. Then we started avoiding eachother. so im like,"well i gotta do something!!" soo i started talking to him asking if he was mad at me or something. and hes like well you always give me the cold shoulder and stuff in the hallway. But i really dont i just dont know what to say to him!! But when we used to talk online alot and stuff we ALWAYS had things to talk about. He said he'd go out with me in like 2 or 3 years? But it was brought up randomly by him, cuz i would like never have the guts to tell him i liked him! i dont know what to do. i get butterflies everytime he gets online!! ...
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Long distance relationship
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 9:55 pm
I am from miami and i am 15. I had met a boy and he is 17 we have been friends for a month and he asked me to be his girlfriend so i said yes and a week later he had to move back to new jersey and we have been going out for 6 months now but he works as a chef and barely have time for anything. should i drop him or stay with him?
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boy trouble. what else?
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 7:17 pm
(sorry if it's long =/)
15/f
Okayy so I met this boy like a few months ago. We have only hung out like 3 times(not alone with a group)but we always talk online and stuff. Lately I have really started to like him. The other night he was talking to me and asked if I liked anyone. I said yes, and then he asked who. So I just sucked it up and told him it was him, but I would like to hang out more before anyhting happened. He said he felt the same way and I was really happy. But here's the problem, I am normally really shy and about stuff like that. I have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. So my question is how do i get this like moving along. I want hang out and stuff but im like nervous but excited. I feel really comfortab...
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James.
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 6:42 pm
Okay, so I really really like this boy James. But he hates me. For no reason! Omg. Hes so sweet/cute/fine and I really like him. People try to convince me he likes me but I just know he doesn't. I know this sounds dumb and all but I started cutting myself just because I think my life was horrible [in my opinion] and now this to make it worse! I cant stand It but i like him so much. I want to stop cutting SO bad because its really not the right thing! Please help me with suggestions to stop! I really dont wanna ruin my life by a stupid mistake I made.
Sincerely,
Bloody Wrists.
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need a girlfriend
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 6:01 pm
I need a girlfriend and I am shy around girls. Can someone give me advice on how to meet someone.
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about the question "does he or not" that i asked...
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 5:18 pm
It helps if you read my other question first. it'll clarify a lot for you! oh, and i'm really sorry in advance- i ask a lot of questions, and some are a little stupid. :-\
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OK. Well, i finaly built up the courage to tell him i liked him. and his response was : "I'm not very good with relationships. but i wouldn't mind staying friends, maybe we could try in the future." alright. here's the thing. i've known him to be very honest. but what if he didn't mean it? are things going to be really awkward between us from now on? was this a bad thing for me to do? and another thing- what if he finally ends up liking me, but i stop liking him? will that make things even more awkward? and what ...
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Celebrity
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 5:10 pm
I have this small crush on Miley Cyrus(Disney Channel-Hannah Montana) and I don't know how to ask her out. Can someone help me.
signed
clueless
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Asking someone out?! Long sorry-but im nervous and i ramble
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 3:50 pm
I don’t ask guys out. They ask me out. Always. But this guy I like hasn’t made a move all summer. We see each other at camp where we both are counselors in training from like 8:45 till 12ish Monday through Friday. We usually talk from 9:00 until 9:15 or so and then later at like 1:00 for like 30 minutes. He is so funny… I think I love him, but I haven’t gone out with him yet, and I want to.
But he won’t make a move and ask me out! I was always told not to ask anyone out *or propose or have sex before marriage or curse or all these other things which I basically abide by*. But camp is over in 2 weeks and them I'm going away for 14 days. And then 2 more weeks of summer and then its like, “Where did the summer go!?”
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IS HE CHEATING ON HIS GF WITH ME?!
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 3:38 pm
ok so theres this boy that i really like...and suposedly he likes me too...which would be a good thing...we were talking on line the other day and i asked him when we were gonna hang out we set up a date and i asked him what we were gonna do..he said first hed give me a hug,we would hang out and then he said that he would like to kiss me...(weird i know) so i said i would like that too... well thats all good..i couldnt go out with him that day because of a family problem and were planning to hang out soon..now heres the problem......my best friend, who is ok with this boy said that he has a girl friend...i dont want to believe it, and i dont want him cheating on her , but i really like him and i want to go out with him....what should i do?
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not sure who to believe
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 3:22 pm
i dated this guy for about a month and i liked him alot. He was so sweet in person and jus seemed perfect. But, we would plan to do something and he wouldnt show up and make up wierd excuses. It made me suspicious. so later he told me it was over for summer but he loved me and would never stop lovin me. me and one of his friends are friends also. he told me about all the lies my ex told me and how he even tried to cheat on me. but later i found out that his friend telling me the info liked me.. so im not sure who to believe cuz his friend could hav jus lied to make me like him.. but he and my ex decided not to take a break for summer.. i didnt kno what to do.. i decided to believe the friend.. and now im not sure if i made the right decisio...
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am i to jealous??
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 2:17 pm
ok soo me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he thinks im to jealuos
-i hate this girl he use to like
-i hate that he whatches porn
-talks to other girls thats are sooo stuck up and snoby and thinks there hot errr!!
-talks about girls but jokingly he says!!
-stares at girls and then when i ask him what are you looking at hes all like umm i just thought i knew her!!
this stufff tottally drives me crazy i hate it do you think im to jealous and what should i do about it and do guys not like it when girls act jealous!!
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love dreams?
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 1:22 pm
a guy said he liked me so i asked him out about 2 weeks ago and he said no. but whatever, i don't care. it's just that every night after this i've been having these dreams where i meet a really amazing guy (usually at the beach at night) and i feel love even though it's just a dream. i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfriend in my life. i get a lot of pretty complements so im not ugly. it's just weird. i don't get it. does anyone know why i'm having these dreams? and are they trying to tell me something? if so what? thanks.
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my jealous ex
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 12:43 pm
ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend about a week and a half ago then i left for a trip and got back the other day. when i got online i was telling him all about it b/c he imed me first and he said he still wanted to talk to me b/c he wants to stay friends. so i was telling him about everything but i left out the part about this guy i met at camp b/c i didnt want to hurt him. he got mad anyways and was like " all you talk about is yourself" but he never talks about him even if i ask so i was like umm im sorry? then he went into detail about how he got drunk, and went to his best friends exes house and hung out w/ her in her hot tub. then he was like im gonna go its hard to talk to you b/c i still love you so much. then he signed off. ...
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