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about the question "does he or not" that i asked...
It helps if you read my other question first. it'll clarify a lot for you! oh, and i'm really sorry in advance- i ask a lot of questions, and some are a little stupid. :-\
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OK. Well, i finaly built up the courage to tell him i liked him. and his response was : "I'm not very good with relationships. but i wouldn't mind staying friends, maybe we could try in the future." alright. here's the thing. i've known him to be very honest. but what if he didn't mean it? are things going to be really awkward between us from now on? was this a bad thing for me to do? and another thing- what if he finally ends up liking me, but i stop liking him? will that make things even more awkward? and what do i do if it happens?
ok, that's it i guess. sorry for allllll the questions. i'm just weird like that.
<3-robyn
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There is nothing wrong with asking alot of questions it is better to ask. Ok with this guy, he told you stright up, exactly what he ment in the first part. he just wants to be friends. you can't make someone like you, and with him saying i am not very good in relationships he is trying his best to say in his nice honest guy way that he is not intrested. and with the future, he is trying not to put you down. so my advice to you, is be friends with him now, move on to another guy, have fun, and if it turns out he gets "better in relationships" and he does want to be more than friends with you in the future, he will let you know. if you turn away from him when he comes after you, just go with your gut if you still like him enough that you want to give him a shot going with the great you, ok. but if not, tell him what he told you, just leave the not good in relationship thing out. or probally by then you will have a guy your with, and you can tell him sorry i am taken, but i would like us to be friends. it makes you feel better about yourself and it's his loss, if he didn't want to go out with the wonderful you, some other guy out there does, and he's just waiting for you to find him! or he will find you, just be patient, in the mean time have fun, and keep being you, don't change for anyone! :)
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Dear,confused It natural to think this but don't feel like this guy is your whole world eaither...ok maybe that wasn't the right thing to say but anyway boys are plain confusing...as far as things being aqward to be onest i can't tell the future dear but from what your telling me i think that things may be....relationship are something people develope just try and think things through. Your friend Violet
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Hey, relax!!!!!It depends on you...If you want to be a friend with him, or like before you can be...Why?Because he shouldn't have problem with it, you should...But you don't so that's ok...It wasn't bad telling him what you feel.Congratulations about that...This means that you are a real self confident and souper gir, with courage...Expressing your feelings and your thoughts is important...And good...If you stop liking him you will not be with him...That is the most normal thing not to be with him if you ll stop liking him...You like him today,yeah?Tomorrow maybe not and this is ok...I don't know if this will be awkward if you will tell him that you don't like him because it depents on him not on you..
You should be yourself and continue be self confident and able to express your feelings without being afraid...
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