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not sure who to believe
i dated this guy for about a month and i liked him alot. He was so sweet in person and jus seemed perfect. But, we would plan to do something and he wouldnt show up and make up wierd excuses. It made me suspicious. so later he told me it was over for summer but he loved me and would never stop lovin me. me and one of his friends are friends also. he told me about all the lies my ex told me and how he even tried to cheat on me. but later i found out that his friend telling me the info liked me.. so im not sure who to believe cuz his friend could hav jus lied to make me like him.. but he and my ex decided not to take a break for summer.. i didnt kno what to do.. i decided to believe the friend.. and now im not sure if i made the right decision. i asked my ex and he denied everythin and said he would never do that to me and that he loved me
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Ask your ex about the lies that your mutual friend told you. dont' yell at him and say you did this, i know you did i herd from our mutual friend. don't ever do that. your ex may have not been the best boyfriend in the world and he may lie to you. and if he does then just forget about him. with this friend if he does like you, ask yourself do i like him too? maybe this guy wants to go out with you so badly that he thought the only way you would think about going out with him is if he lied about your ex making him (the friend) look like the good guy to come to your rescue. and your ex look like the bad guy. so i wold talk to your ex first, follow your gut and if you think he is not lieing keep being friends with him, if he lies forget about him. with these excuses that your ex gave you talk to him about those as well. just follow your gut and good luck.
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You need to confront both guys about it. I know you've probably heard this before but It's true. No matter how hard it is for you, you need to try
-karlie
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I would believe the friend.
Your ex probably did love you.
But if he didn't bother to show up to see you,
then it's not even worth it.
I guess it all comes down to who you trust more.
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if in fact your ex did love you, he would be with you still to this day. love isnt a few months thing, or just something you do when you're bored.
i say, dont believe rumors because it'll be your source to only bad stuff about your ex.
about the friends i dont know if i'd believe them
to be truly honest.
take things slow, and just try and meet someone new
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