EriksBallerina answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 4:50 pm: Casually talk to a girl who has a good personality or who has things in common with you. Remember to treat her like a person, not a sex goddess. Even if she isn't pretty, she probably has a good personality. Don't judge girls by their appearances ever. We can be really nice, kind, and funny even if we're not attractive or thin. Get to know her as a friend first. Then just be brave and ask her out. Don't try to change yourself just to get a "hot" girl. All of the nice girls who would love you and be devoted to you will love you for being yourself. Also, if you're funny, show it! Just search around. I hope this helps!
PS: try flirting with some heavier girls who don't appear loud, obnoxious, or over-dressed. Not to be stereotypical, but sometimes heavier girls can be the sweetest people you will ever meet. trust me. [ EriksBallerina's advice column | Ask EriksBallerina A Question ]
lizzielovesyou answered Thursday July 27 2006, 9:48 pm: well first things first even if your shy you dont have to act like it.let the girls see a sensitive side of you along with the funny side.girls like guys who can just come out and show them there true side.and hey even if its clear your shy most girls find that attractive so do your best and let me know what happens [ lizzielovesyou's advice column | Ask lizzielovesyou A Question ]
pshxily answered Thursday July 27 2006, 3:05 pm: ok.. this is coming from a girl.. so you have to trust me on this one.. i know what im talking about.. haha
anyways.. on to your question ;; even if your shy.. you just have to forget that your talking to a girl( i know that sounds wierd.. but itll help) and show them a funny side of you.. girls love guys who can make them laugh.. also.. try complimenting them.. but not to the point where it seems like your a creep and all you want is to get in there pants. haha.. and finally.. just be yourself! dont try and impress them with someone your not.. because then they might think that everything youve said and done was fake.. well i hope i helped and good luck with everything! <33 [ pshxily's advice column | Ask pshxily A Question ]
Hrcoole answered Thursday July 27 2006, 12:09 am: Hey there,
ok first of all you don't need a girlfriend. i understand that you are shy, so if you would still like to meet a girl, if you have any outgoing friends (the guys that are not shy) see if you can hang with them while they are hangging with girls and see if they can get you hooked up. and to meet someone on your own, if all your friends are shy too, go out and have fun and if you see a girl that you think you may be intrested in go and talk to her, small talk nothing big, ask her how she is, where she goes to school, her name of course, and ask about her hobbies, and don't forget to talk about yourself and to tell her all about you, you will have a coversation going in no time. With any girl though become friends first, dont' rush anything, you have plenty of time for girls just concentrate on school, and what you like to do. be most importantly BE YOURSELF. don't try to be someone your not. good luck with the ladies! [ Hrcoole's advice column | Ask Hrcoole A Question ]
magicmann answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 7:10 pm: i have friends that have the same problem one suggestion is that you be an online dater.you should go to match.com 0r chatavenue.com to find your one true love.i have another suggestion-you could go up to the gurl and somewhat ask a question or make a comment.if you need more advice e-mail me at bekoe1994@yahoo.com [ magicmann's advice column | Ask magicmann A Question ]
helpful_jess answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 6:40 pm: just be urself and be calm, you could maybe take up a hobie or join a club of some sort thats a good way to meet people and will also then have somthing incommon that you could talk about and then ask her what else she is into trust me just believe in youself be confident you will have the girls fighting over you good look babes xx [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
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