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shy or embaressed?
idk why..but for some reason i get embarressed or shy or even nervous if a guy calls or comes over to my house..and i dont wanna be anti social with guys..but im always like afraid of what my parents might think or something. or im scared to have a boyfriend because im afraid of what my parents might think? anything helps!! thanks a bunch! =)
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This is totally normal to feel like your parents won't approve, or might embarrass you, but they understand that not all guys are your boyfriend, and that if he is it's your decision to date him. If anything, they'll want to be involved more with what's happening with their daughter's love life. If you arrange for a guy to come round, and mention it to your Mum or Dad, you'll be able to see their reaction, and hopefully it'll be a good one.
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well thats pretty normal i think but maybe you coodtalk to your mom about it i mean its kinda weird in my opinion to talk to my dad about that stuff like me and my mom girl girl connection but you cood always just be friends with some boys for awhile and let your parents know like i'm gonna go hang out with some friends ex: steve anna bobby shirley andy who knows they cood like them and wod like you to hang out with them.
hope i helped
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Hey,
I have read your problem and i have a point of view in that. The reason that you get embarrassed or shy is because you probably just feel alittle strange and not at ease when there is a guy around you because you are simply not used to that, or to having a boyfriend or someone to love you and be with you.
And i understand how you do not want to be anti social with guys. Believe me, they are not that bad, they could say rude comments and be mean sometimes, but not all of them are, some are really freindly and loving . So if they call or come over, just act natural and have normal conversations with them and don't show them that you are shy or embarrased.
Moreover, i know alot of friends of mine who hang out with guys all the time and there parents are really cool about it, and i am sure that your parents are too.
They even sit with them sometimes and talk and joke around. So its cool.
The thing thats making you scared about your parents opinion about that all, is because this is a new experience knowing a guy ,hanging out with him and having him as your boyfreind. But everyone loves and has a boyfreind. So go and have fun and live your life, and i promise that your parents will be the first to support you and be there for you.Because its your right to have fun and date and be like everyone else. So try to change this shy, embarressed, worried personality,and just simply act natural.
And if you have any other problems ,troubles, worries or concerns, then please be free to contact me. Goodluck:)
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Tell your mom or dad (whichever you prefer) in advance if a guy's going to come over, maybe that'll make it easier for you. Say you know him from school, or wherever, and he's really nice, etc. They'll give him a chance. You won't be as nervous once your parents know the guy. :]
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The reason you get shy/nervouse if a guy comes over or calls you is because your not used to the fact of having a boyfriend , or just a guy likeing you , you`ll get used to it though because it`s not just something that happens & the reason your scared to have a boyfriend because of your parents oppinions is because you need to talk to your mom atleast and just ask her if she feels comftorable with you dating guys , and just tell her your old enough and you feel like your ready for a boyfriend , & you don`t want her to think bad things about you because you wouln`t do anything bad with your boyfriend. Just have a talk with one of your parents , then trust me you`ll feel way better! Good Luck & I hope I helpe! ♥ :]
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