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James.
Okay, so I really really like this boy James. But he hates me. For no reason! Omg. Hes so sweet/cute/fine and I really like him. People try to convince me he likes me but I just know he doesn't. I know this sounds dumb and all but I started cutting myself just because I think my life was horrible [in my opinion] and now this to make it worse! I cant stand It but i like him so much. I want to stop cutting SO bad because its really not the right thing! Please help me with suggestions to stop! I really dont wanna ruin my life by a stupid mistake I made.
Sincerely,
Bloody Wrists.
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No guy is worth hurting/cutting yourself over! and your life isn't ruined as long as you stop cutting now, it's not worth it. try wearing a rubber band around your wrist and if you really have the cutting urge snap it. It should work because it sounds like you aren't addicted to cutting but are kinda just doing it anyways. Just be as nice as possible to James, i'm sure you already are. If you feel that he hates you for no reason, don't be afraid to confront him! Just ask him if it's bugging you. Hope that helps! :)
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Dear Bloody Wrists,
Just because some guy doesnt like you,
doesnt mean you should start cutting.
In my opinion, people only cut because
they think this will ease the pain on the inside.
But that is NOT true. You could kill yourself
if you put the 'cutting item' too far into your wrists.
If this boy, James, doesnt realize you're doing
all of this for him, he is not the right guy and you should definitely move on.
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okae. you really don't know what your doing to your body. because with one cut you can end your life just like that. you shouldn't hurt your body for some guy. it is so not worth it! so just stop cutting yourself and move on with your life. it'll make your life better if you stop cutting. i mean you don't have to stop liking the guy but you gotta stop what your doing. you know what i'm saying? okaie i hope i helped. enjoy the rest of the summer
<3christina
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Dear Bloody wrist,
I dont think you should cut your self over a boy.
you dont know what your doing to your body.
If James supposeable hates you screw him,hes oviously not worth it.To stop cutting your wrist keep your self busy. I dont know what your going through but once i was watching this show about people who cut them selves and they were talking about keeping them selves busy and doing things that makes them happy.
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wow!screw james! i cant beilive youre doing this over some guy that doesnt even know or care about how you feel!you have to get over it he DOESNT like you what are you going to do about it?what if one day a guy likes you to death and you dont care about him,is he gonna force you to like him?i dont THINK so!cutting yourself is going to cause you to bruise yourself and its going to not just leave a bruise on your skin but in your heart too,because when you grow older and look at it you will feel terrible.hes not the last guy on earth,youll find a guy that loves you and youll love him back one day i mean,WAIT your only 13!!im 15 and i never fel in love and I LIKED a guy that didnt like me and i didnt give a shit cuz i knew it wasnt gointg to get me anywhere and that i was only 13 at that moment.your still going to go to grades 8,9,10,11,12,COLLEGE,WORK so do you THINK a guy you met at the begining of your life time is worth cutting yourself for?!?!everything changes and one day you will forget all about this and say wow i remember what caramella said and nothing really IS worth cutting myself.
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Bloody wrists,
girl you should never cut yourself for anything, it's a pretty bad thing to do to your body. i am sure whatever the reason you cut, is not worth it. there are so many more better possibilities instead of cutting yourself. With this boy named james, unless he tells you himself that he hates you, and i am sure he doesn't because hate is a pretty strong word, then i would not believe what ever your telling yourself, of which he hates you. talk to him, flirt, get to know him, become his friend. and see where it leads you. but i would highly advise you stop cutting yourself first, because right now your not in any shape to be in a relationship when you turn to something as horrible as cutting yourself. love yourself first before you can love others. because when you get into a relationship you not only have to deal with your own problems, but you have to deal with your boyfriend's too. take one step at a time. stop cutting, go out with friends, go to a movie, do what you love to do, there are so much better things to do than to cut yourself, and then go after the guy. i wish you
the best of luck. :)
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Dear,bloody wrists First of all take a deep breath and calm down,even though this guy may not like you maybe he isn't the one for you...i would sudjest you even though it's hard to do let him go...as for your cutting it's good you've relised it isn't the right thing to do...try and think of yourself better relise it isn't your fault things turned out the way they did make sure that you talk to your friends or maybe your school councler they should be able to help you...try to keep yourself away from sharp objects for awhile and do some constructive ways to deal with pain like right down your thoughts and feelings,hang in there i know you can make it. Your friend, Violet
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yes, look whatever you do DO NOT cut your self frined can't say names but she's been doing that but ever since she hanged out with me I hav to take everything away next thing you know your gonna try to kill yourself naw don't be like her don't cut yourself for dum reason .OK about your Q THIS might seem dum but when boyz said they hate you , they really like you they say they hate you or your fat ,or W/E ok but he really like you just don't want you to kno like for Ex. this boy said he hate me and does'nt like me I did'nt care but then he told me when we were alone that none of what he said is true he just wanted to get my attention well he end up asking me out. so your friends are right if they say he like you he just don't want to admit it
sorry 4 it being so long hope I help
-lilT
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If James hates you for no reason he's probably not the best guy for you. I'd try to talk to him, and if he is just so not interested in you, I'm sorry but you're going to have to find another boy. If this kid is making you cut yourself, it's just not right. Please stop cutting yourself. It's not good for you or for anybody else. There ARE a lot of fish in the sea. I know, I know, it's corny...but think about it. It's true :)
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This might not be what you want to hear, but therapy might help. I know from experience that it can suck going to therapy. But it can probably help you a lot and its important to stop cutting yourself because it is not good for you physically OR mentally. So when you look at it there are more pros to therapy than cons. Give it a try, even it doesn't work, you could get different help from there. I think it is definately worth a try.
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i think you should tell someone about this...it may seem hard but they can help you stop cutting, and help you with james. go to an adult you trust like your mom or teacher(ive found that teachers can help you with almost anything) and trust me....all this isnt worth it dont worry
hope this helps
love me
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you should first stop cuttin urself,tell james how you feel and if he doesnt like you just find someone else to like.
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