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boy trouble. what else?
(sorry if it's long =/)
15/f
Okayy so I met this boy like a few months ago. We have only hung out like 3 times(not alone with a group)but we always talk online and stuff. Lately I have really started to like him. The other night he was talking to me and asked if I liked anyone. I said yes, and then he asked who. So I just sucked it up and told him it was him, but I would like to hang out more before anyhting happened. He said he felt the same way and I was really happy. But here's the problem, I am normally really shy and about stuff like that. I have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. So my question is how do i get this like moving along. I want hang out and stuff but im like nervous but excited. I feel really comfortable around him but we havent hung out alone yet. Please help. Any advice is appreciated.(sp?)
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Ah, there are so many questions on this site about "how do I tell him I like him?" It's great to see one where you've already done that, and it worked out well.
Try getting together for lunch on your first "alone date". It's fun and nonthreatening, and you can spend some time talking together about things you'll be able to do together, like whether you both like racquetball, or modern art museums, or classic James Bond movies.
I personally think that a great way to initiate a First Kiss would be:
(1) Choose a good moment, like when you reach the fountain in the middle of the outdoor mall or when you're lying on a hill at the park watching the sunset. Make sure it's a setting where you'll be able to concentrate on nothing else; you want to remember this moment for the kiss, not for what was on TV in the background!
(2) Look him in the eyes. A little smile is OK, but don't laugh.
(3) Take a deep breath. This parts your lips slightly, lets him know you're ready, and quiets your racing heart a bit.
(4) Touch him in some way. Put your hands on his chest, touch his cheek, or hold his hands, depending on what feels appropriate.
(5) You've got his attention. Close your eyes, move in slightly, and wait for it.
(6) Discover the phenomenal number of nerve endings to be found in the lips!
Enjoy...
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It sounds like your very intrested in this guy and he is the same for you, i am happy for you both. this is simple, just tell him "i like you and i feel really comfterbal with you, but i think if we are going to be in a relationship i would like to take it slow." just tell him exactly what you told me, on how you feel towards everything. and if he is a good guy and he does like you then he will understand on how you feel. i would advise you stick with hangging with the group just a little while longer. just so that you both can get to know eachother better, and so that he doesn't get the idea of that you want to go faster than what you are compterbal with doing. and this is after you tell him of how you feel. That you are shy, and that you do like him but you want to move things slowly. stick with hanggnig with the group and he should get the idea, and talk about how combterbal u are with things. and don't worry about your first kiss, it will happen when the time is right. just have fun.
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Well its a great thing that you feel confortable around him. Theres really nothing you can do to mess up a makeout.If he trys to kiss you then just follow his lead , trust me i was so scared and then once it happend i was like omg that wasnt hard at all. and plus? whats the worst that can happen? him stop liking you? well if that does happen there is alot of other boys out there. Just relax. and if you are really confortable being around him then mabe u could even tell him that he is going to be your first kiss. I know he will be more happy and honored to know that then to tell you he dont like you. thats what i would do.
hope i helped. and GOOD LUCK.
&&heart's;;kayla
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when you hangout with him and your friends ask him if he wants to hangout with you later just you and him, well when you are alone with him just talk about things you usually talk about.He might try to get close to you let him if he stars @ your lips that mean he want to kiss you but since you have'nt kiss anybody just let him make the move.he's probably already done that before right?well my adive is just let him make the move if you have any Q' u can ask me I've been there before ok
hope I help
-lilT
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well if you do hang out alone .. watch a movie or somethign.. so than theres no akward sliences..and when he makes a move just follow hes lead.. theres really nothing to be worried about..if you feel comfortable with him than everything should be fine <3
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